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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To say goodbye to Mumsnet?

80 replies

LoveTheWayYouLie · 17/05/2011 15:51

I've not been on here in a while but gosh are people quick to make others feel shit.

Whatever happened to being nice to people? Offering advice?

Just because you're seperated by a computer screen you think you can say what you want and it wont matter? I hope I never come face to face with any of those people.

OP posts:
SenoritaViva · 17/05/2011 17:28

Ruder than simply flouncing is posting about a flounce and then just disappearing. It's rude IMO. Proper flouncing requires some effort. None from you so far.

SenoritaViva · 17/05/2011 17:29

Pictish what is Bad Mother's Club. Sounds like my cup of tea. I love dripping.

Pictish · 17/05/2011 17:31

It's a much smaller parenting forum. It used to be really big, but the editor brought in subscriptions and as a result, a lot of people stopped bothering with it.

It's still a great site though.

www.badmothersclub.co.uk/jsp/index.jsp?lnk=308

Pictish · 17/05/2011 17:32

Bollocks - hold on.

www.badmothersclub.co.uk/jsp/index.jsp?lnk=308

oohlaalaa · 17/05/2011 17:34

I'm saying goodbye now, till the weekend, so if you see me here, tell me to go away. I'm self-employed and have bookwork I should be doing.

Good luck on staying away.

carminaburana · 17/05/2011 17:43
sofaqueenie · 17/05/2011 18:34

YANBU at all.

I'm even debating going back to Nethuns, at least it's lighthearted on there!

saidthespiderwithahorridsmile · 17/05/2011 18:35

and lightbrained

TandB · 17/05/2011 18:39

Try Baby&Bump, OP. You aren't allowed to be mean on there. And you have to conclude every post with "each to their own, hun. You know your bubs best. Hugz xxxx".

I think you'd like it. Personally I found it akin to being slowly eaten by a giant lavender coloured marshmallow of misplaced tolerance but each to their own hun.

sofaqueenie · 17/05/2011 18:39

...oh ofcourse - because anyother site other than Mumsnet is just sooooo rubbish and full of nonsensical earth mothers?

SnuffleTurtle153 · 17/05/2011 18:39

I don't think the OP was much interested in whether or not she was being unreasonable to leave. I think she may have left.

saidthespiderwithahorridsmile · 17/05/2011 18:41

NM isn't full of earth mothers. It's full of flatheaded punters who giggle with their fingers.

MN is, comparatively, full of earth mothers. But we can ignore them. Grin

BitOfFun · 17/05/2011 18:41

Oh, there are lots of fabulous other sites. I'm baffled why people bother with this one when they dislike it. Or feel the need to announce their departure.

YouMustBeYolking · 17/05/2011 18:41

Blah blah, don't let the door hit you on the way out.

TandB · 17/05/2011 18:42

Baby&bump banned all its earth mothers for being disruptive about cloth nappies.

sofaqueenie · 17/05/2011 18:45

:o a spider.

That made me laugh, or lol as the kids would say

sofaqueenie · 17/05/2011 18:45

at

SpringHeeledJack · 17/05/2011 18:47

bit harsh

OP is 20, 3 months preg and her 'friend' has dissed her dog. Grrrrrr.

I would be hopping mad, OP

...but, since mn is a great resource for the pregnant (and just about everyone else) I would

  1. leave it for a week (till I had calmed down a bit)
  2. name change and
  3. never, ever post in AIBU if I wanted a reasonable and balanced debate

hope this helps Smile

PaperView · 17/05/2011 18:50

There is proper support when it is needed and your thread on AIBU wasn't where it was needed imo.

MN is like marmite - you either like it or you don't. There are other parenting forums which you may feel better in. I like the honesty you get here even if it someone telling you to fuck off Wink

BitOfFun · 17/05/2011 18:51

And fgs stay away from the doghouse- it makes this place look like Mother Teresa chatting to the Dalai Lama.

JamieAgain · 17/05/2011 18:52

Yes, just don't start a post on AIBU if you are in any way likely to get upset (justifiably or unjustifiably) about what people say. Just don't do it. MN is wonderfully supportive, IME, but that's not the remit of AIBU

MooMooFarm · 17/05/2011 18:54

Haven't read all three pages but - firstly - what is 'flouncers corner'? Is it real?

And secondly I don't understand why people take the time to go onto mumsnet, log in and start a thread, which they presumably then follow and read, just to say they're leaving Confused. Why not just do it?

LeQueen · 17/05/2011 19:05

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MooMooFarm · 17/05/2011 19:07

LeQueen strangely enough I am also more interested in your new hair colour - please share Smile

JamieAgain · 17/05/2011 19:10

Right, have read the thread in question. The answers you got were pretty balanced IMO

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