My nanny knows we are leaving the area, and has known ever since we interviewed her as we said we could only offer a year contract.
Lately she has taken time off sick, been disrespectful about me infront of my husband and two LO and now has demanded that I discipline my children for their behaviour during transitions. Which is actually not too bad but they do get clingy when I come home and are fine again when she leaves. They don't 'love' her but then she is a very practical nanny and she is firm.
Then I came home and my eldest said that the nanny had said that I 'was making choices that were hurting him.' I can only assume that this was in reference to our leaving the area. I know that we should not always believe everything but it's such an adult sentence that it has given me cause for concern.
Am I being oversensitive? I am actually scared to confront her in case she leaves - we need to keep working and it's only a few months until we go.
WWYD?