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To think cosmetic botox for 8 year olds is utterly shocking and verging on child abuse?

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pollypopsocks · 12/05/2011 16:44

This (sorry Daily Mail alert!)

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heresiarch · 12/05/2011 19:13

I bet there are parents on this thread who have had cosmetic surgery done on their children. You probably called it circumcision. You might even have had a party afterwards.
At least botox wears off after a while.

mathanxiety · 12/05/2011 20:26

It's not a hoax. Child was interviewed, along with parent, on American TV. The botoxing was photographed.

pollypopsocks · 12/05/2011 20:54

heresiarch - deffo agree with you on that one

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Meglet · 12/05/2011 20:56

Doesn't the US have social services? Angry

AgentZigzag · 12/05/2011 21:05

Not wanting to get into the ins/outs of circumcision, but I would view having a circumcision for religious reasons in a totally different league (and discussion) to an 8 YO having botox for a beauty contest.

But it's a bit weird because I've thought about why I believe it's different, and I just can't work out why I think that.

Because it's been done for 1000s of years (so's murder, doesn't make it right) .

Because even if you don't feel the religious force behind the decision, you have to respect it (perhaps the mum in story has strong feelings).

Hygiene? Not necessary.

I just can't put my finger on it Confused

Cymar · 12/05/2011 21:05

Makes me want to give the mother a right old slap and tell her to wind her neck in Angry.

Botox for medical reasons as part of treatment (hyperhydrosis etc) - OK.
Botox for cosmetic reasons - NO, NO, NO TOTALLY WRONG.

pigletmania · 12/05/2011 21:13

I was Shock, words fail me! Why are Child Welfare services not involved, this mum is abusing her child by injecting her CHILD with poison. Is she even qualified, thought a Dr had to do this.

MadamDeathstare · 12/05/2011 21:22

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heresiarch · 12/05/2011 21:29

"But it's a bit weird because I've thought about why I believe it's different, and I just can't work out why I think that."

I know this is all a bit off topic but it just came to me when I was reading the OP. I couldn't come up with any intrinsic difference other than one has a long tradition behind it and the other hasn't.

MadamDeathstare · 12/05/2011 22:09

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madwomanintheattic · 12/05/2011 22:31

well, you only get circumcised once, whatever your rationale. and usually before you develop the capacity to remember it all your life.

this appears to be ritual abuse of a child who is going to remember that her mother inflicted pain on her deliberately and repetitively when she was 8yo because she was not good enough in her natural state.

i have had cosmetic surgery carried out on my then 6yo though. strabismus surgery.

QuickLookBusy · 12/05/2011 22:33

It's not verging on child abuse. It is child abuse.

I hope you are right slow

mathanxiety · 13/05/2011 05:37

I think there are concerns over where the mother was getting her botox from. I think botox access is controlled. And I heard that the local social services are checking into it too.

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