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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to not want to work for the minimum wage?

31 replies

DiamondDoris · 08/05/2011 17:04

Job hunting - okay, only want to work part time, quite prepared to do anything, but everything round here seems to be between £5.93 and £6 ph. I'm 45, (degree etc plus work experience in many fields). I don't won't to devalue myself and think this would be a major step backwards. I just don't think I could get myself motivated for that small amount of money.

What do you think? AIBU? Oh, and I'd need to earn enough for a small mortgage and provide for 2 kids Hmm

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ilovedora27 · 09/05/2011 10:29

I work for 6 pound an hour and at least I know I earn my money. I dont feel like I am above it or I am 'devaluing' myself. I just would rather do that than claim benefits as I have self respect. I have a degree and lots of experience in 2 different fields.

aldiwhore · 09/05/2011 10:35

I'm job hunting too and its a little soul destroying. But there's not many folks out there who get paid their worth.

My job search is two fold: Get any job, to show willing and continue looking.

I've been a SAHM for 7 years so I need to show employers that I'm up to speed, I KNOW I am but can't prove it. So I'm taking a CIPD evening course and applying for everything that's out there, with a view to negotiating any offer as mumblechum suggests.

I was ever so slightly offended at getting turned down from McDonalds though, but my jobsearch is a long term project and if that means that I work for peanuts for a while, just to show on my CV that I'm serious, so be it. (I wouldn't CHOOSE to work at McDonalds)

mossi · 09/05/2011 10:54

Do you have anything you could offer in today's job market? You don't say what kind of work you've been involved with. Could you consult or teach at further education level?

I was in a similar position to you a few years ago. I found a reasonably well paid part-time job in NHS administration - but I got it on the basis I had worked as a care assistant in a hospital (at slightly more than minimum wage) for a while and had nhs experience. Universities sometimes have reasonably paid part time admin jobs.

I too am a graduate with many years work experience. I chose to work in care when my dd was a baby, so that I could spend as much time as possible with her. It's not so much the money I found devaluing, it was the treatment from management - being told off for having any initiative. I found I had to bite my tongue a lot to survive.

ScousyFogarty · 09/05/2011 11:02

I can understand how you feel. It is not a living wage. But taking a job may lead to something better. Good luck

LeQueen · 09/05/2011 11:16

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darleneoconnor · 09/05/2011 11:23

If you want decent pay work full time, even if it is just temporary, then switch to p/t.

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