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Is DH being unreasonable?

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Cutiecat · 05/05/2011 21:48

At the moment I am 33 weeks pregnant and we are in the midst of a major house extension (which I am running on my own as DH does not take any interest in anything like this). DH has started in the last week discussing how he is unhappy in his job. I suspect that he is feeling the fiancial presssure of the build plus another child (we already have 2 dc) but I also suspect that he is a bit jealous that the attention is on me due to my pregnancy.

Am I being unreasonable to ask him to shut up about it and just get on with it until the building work is finished and the baby born. It is just too much to have him coming home moaning about work and potentially starting to go to inteviews etc.

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Cutiecat · 06/05/2011 20:37

Thanks Dex and Gobble.

Totem - The extension is meant to be finished before the baby arrives but it will probably will be a case of the structural work is done but there will still be an awful lot of sorting out. Putting furniture back etc. We are not under any financial pressure at the moment as the extension was planned for as was the baby. I just think DH would like to be earning more and obviously it would make life more comfortable.

Thanks for your comments.

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BoneyBackJefferson · 06/05/2011 21:28

I am more concerned about the term "my DD"

Cutiecat · 06/05/2011 22:48

Boney - Really!!?! Just look at the list of topics in this section and I think you will see that lots of people refer to 'my DD' or 'my DS'.

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