William not wearing a ring?

[StatelyPoshBeartrothal]

he wears a signet ring so has chosen not to wear a wedding ring. thats what sky news says anyway!

Well, its not as if people won't know he is married....

not impressed!

why must anyone wear a ring?

i think you either both do (i.e. exchange rings) or you both don't.

So what? A lot of men don't wear a wedding, including my DH, it means nothing.

wedding ring

Wedding rings for men only became fashionable in the middle of the 20th century.....my dh doesn't wear one, doesn't bother me

Oh fair enough
Just my opinion - you either exchange rings as a sign of your commitment, or you don't. One person with a sign of their commitment and one seems a bit odd to me

I found it surprising too.

IMHO, i think it is more understandable if both choose to, or both choose not to.

i never understood why women wear one when their husband's don't. i've never heard of it the other way round. has anyone else?

whatever works for them i guess. i wouldn't be happy with it personally, but there's a lot of things lots of people do that i couldn't accept - so i don't. as long as tehy're happy that's all that matters, just with any couple getting married.

Sometimes its to do with the job they do, FIL was a mechanic and viewed a ring as dangerous, my dad was a maintenance engineer and always wore a ring but made adjustments to his so it sat flat, had a raised ridge when he bought it. Its the same when a woman does not take her husbands name or take the title Mrs, its not wrong its just personal preference.

Yes, personal preference fine, am just surprised. I ahve heard of no rings but never thought one would and the other wouldn;t.

This was the norm up until the 1960's - 70's. Woman wore a ring, man did not.

wedding rings are traditionally a sign of ownership of a woman. No ring = owned by her father. Ring = owned by her husband. That's why women are 'given away' from father to husband, they are not independent beings.

Rings as a symbol of a couple's commitment to each other is a very modern concept.

I told DH I wasn't wearing a wedding ring unless he was (I'm not really a ring person). We walked into church together, there was none of the 'obey' nonsense and I haven't changed my name. I don't wearing my ring in winter; that one just about did MIL in, bless her

Why don't you wear your ring in winter? [cconfused]

We both had rings when we got married, but neither of us wear them all the time now. Husband has a job which means jewellery is a safety issue, and I just dont wear much jewellery unless we are going out.

my hands get almost exema-ey (cracked and bleeding) and it's worse around my ring. I also hate lathering on hand cream and getting it stuck under my ring.

Yes, I could take it off to apply hand cream. And that's how my engagement ring ended up in a clinical waste bucket. Long story......

Because her hand shrinks in cold weather and it falls off?

My dad doesn't wear a ring, I grew up thinking men didn't wear wedding rings but it's just because he doesn't wear jewellary.

I get that HIghlander, horrible, isn;t it?

My Dad doesn't wear a ring either. He used to do a lot of welding, and witnessed a particuarly nasty accident when he was younger in which his mate lost his finger. My Mum sometimes doesn't wear hers as its a really thick band and it rubs.

Highlander/Stately - I get that too No amount of cream seems to help in winter, but its getting a bit better now the weather is warmer. I've only been married for 3 years, I want to wear my rings!!

With the job he does it's probably a practical thing, jewelry and Search and Rescue don't go very well together.

But not wearing them for pratical reasons is very different to just not exchanging them in the first place

what happened when they said their vows then if she didn't have a ring to put on him?

He doesn't wear any rings, ever.

Here's the longish thread from In The News when this was announced at the end of March.

thanks Meditrina