I am 30 at the weekend, and have planned a meal with friends, followed by a few drinks. No clubbing, nothing huge. Dh has been moaning all week about staying out late, and "why do I have to try and pretend I am 19 again", going into city centre etc. I had suggested to friends that we might go somewhere that has a dance floor, simply as I love to dance and haven't been out for years.
He says I should just do something in day, he won't come if his moaning will ruin it (but then I have to explain where he is)
I am not looking forward to it now, as I will be thinking about him and what a crap time he is having.
Is it too much to ask him to come out on my birthday, do whatever it is I want and not ruin it with moaning?