i've not posted on here before but i'm not sure if i'm BU. we'll here goes long story short.
i've been talking to DH for about 18months about having DC2, we got married, moved to a bigger house and were going to start trying in August once we had finished sorting finacially and other bits.
my sister split up with her DS1 dad about 3 months ago saying she wanted to be with someone else, they got back together 2 months ago and she has just annouced she's pregnant and they have been trying for their second child (sister still lives at home with parents).
AIBU to think she's just done it to spite me or AIBU in general. it hit a soft spot and i have lost all judgement since she told me!