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AIBU?

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To like it when DH kisses me on the forehead?

22 replies

NoDayButToday · 26/04/2011 23:16

My DD has had problems since birth and gets ill a lot. She was sick last night with a chesty cough but I had a long planned night out with a friend I don't see often. On the doorstep DH was reassuring me that DD would be fine with him and that he'd phone me if anything changed. He could see I was still a bit worried and so gave me a big hug and kissed me on the forehead. I like it when he does this, it makes me feel cared for, safe/protected, and cements in my mind that he loves me in lot's of ways and not just sexually.

However when I got in the taxi my friend commented that it was weird and father-like, and that she thought it was 'a bit creepy'. I'm a bit [cconfused] and wanted to get the Mumsnet jury's opinion on this.

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EricNorthmansMistress · 26/04/2011 23:19

I can't be arsed to have an opinion. Oh ok - no it's not creepy. Whatever floats your boat. at safe/protected for some reason though.

worraliberty · 26/04/2011 23:19

No I love it when my DH does that...though normally it'll be when we're laying down together.

It's just another way of kissing. The only thing that would be weird, would be if it was the only way he ever kissed you Grin

ohmyfucksy · 26/04/2011 23:21

I love it! I kiss him on his too

RoyalFucker · 26/04/2011 23:21

If you are comfortable wih it, then why worry what others think ?

Your "friend" needs to mind her own business

worraliberty · 26/04/2011 23:22

ohmyfucksy you kiss the OP's DH on his too? Shock

Grin
changingmynameagain · 26/04/2011 23:22

I love when DP puts his arms round me and kisses the top of my head.

YANBU

MangoTango · 26/04/2011 23:23

Your friend sounds lovely. NOT!

ohmyfucksy · 26/04/2011 23:24

ha

I actually act quite maternal to DH, he likes it when I stroke his hair, it makes him go all sleepy. He is actually a lot older than me, so not sure it can count as maternal.

helibee · 26/04/2011 23:24

I think it's lovely and know what you mean about showing Love in other ways than sexual. I think your friend is the strange one if she couldn't see it as being anything other than loving affection between a husband and wife

missnevermind · 26/04/2011 23:25

DH is a foot taller than me. I like it when he puts his arms round me and kisses me on the top of my head.

FabbyChic · 26/04/2011 23:25

She sounds jealous!

RoyalFucker · 26/04/2011 23:25

that's what I think too, fabby

changingmynameagain · 26/04/2011 23:26

Mind you, dp usually accompanies the kiss with "God you are TINY" lol

electra · 26/04/2011 23:26

I like it too - it's not creepy - it feels protective!

BertieBotts · 26/04/2011 23:28

DP kisses me on the nose! I have seen that taken the piss out of on here before, as in why would you do that to your partner, it's just weird and/or patronising. But he just did it a few times when we first got together and then we both giggled and he said "I don't know why I did that" and it kind of stuck Grin I think it's cute. We do kiss normally as well. Maybe she thinks you don't? Confused

GreenEyesandHam · 26/04/2011 23:30

Ah come on, you know it's not creepy.

If he'd have bade you farewell on the doorstep with a kiss on the fanjo, now that would have been creepy

worraliberty · 26/04/2011 23:31

I think she could be jealous

My friend was always taking the pee out of my and DH for being so affectionate. She even used to make digs about him cooking the xmas dinner on his own for 8 or 10 of us...saying things like "Oh I don't know how you can sit there while he does all the work" (I didn't..I'd play with the kids while he insisted he did it all)

Anyway, long story short...when she split up with her ex and found a guy almost as wonderful as my DH, she changed her tune totally and admitted she was indeed jealous Smile

RumourOfAHurricane · 26/04/2011 23:32

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NoDayButToday · 26/04/2011 23:32

She's seen us kiss normally plenty of times, I think I'll just ignore the comment and put it down as her problem not mine. Me and DH have had a very stable relationship since we were sixteen whereas she's had a more rocky history of partners, perhaps her definitions of 'normal' have been skewed somewhat?

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worraliberty · 26/04/2011 23:42

I can't imagine what she'd make of my DH...he won't even leave the house without kissing the dog!

Thankfully he kisses me first Hmm Grin

Mumcentreplus · 26/04/2011 23:44

I think it's cute my DH kisses me in numerous places Grin

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