to be *extremely* pissed of at "d"h?

[shesparkles]

DD who's 13 spent the majority of last night throwing her guts up (tummy bug doing the rounds here)
The plonker has just come in with a huge bag od Cadbury's mini eggs "to make her feel better"

AIBU to be FUCKING angry with him,

1 For doing it

and

2 For not seeing why I'm pissed off at him

doesn't begin to describe it!

Surely you can just say "let's save the chocolate until your tummy has settled down" and then scoff the lot yourself

YABU.

She can eat them when her stomach bug has gone.

You are over reacting, but he is being a bit of a plonker

Yes sorry YABU - he was only trying to help. Are you a bit over wrought as you've been with DD? See if you can a nap maybe??

YABU. He was trying to be nice, not being malicious. I think you need to get a grip actually, from your title I thought he'd done something really terrible.

YABmassivelyU - poor man he's just trying to cheer his daughter up!

You are definitely overreacting, just save the chocolate for when she's feeling better. I think DH did a lovely thing.

ok ok IABU

Jesus! You're acting like he's offered her crack! YABU....it's only chocolate!

YABVU

The day after my stomach bug I had a McDonalds chicken thing, fries, a shake AND an apple pie. And two cream eggs. Just what I needed. And I never eat such things...

X-posts

I've only posted a very small part of it, and going on what I posted, yes it does look very much like I'm an over reacting screaming harpy

Suffice to say there's a huge history of dh undermining my every move with the kids, not in an abusive earthshattering way, just a general wellbeing, dad being the "nice" one and mum being a mean cow type of a way

In that case maybe AIBU not the best place? Perhaps re-post?