This may sound a bit silly, I'm not sure. Feel free to tell me I'm unreasonable, as I'm sure you will.
I've worked at my current office for 7 years. We do a fair amount of charity work and colleagues frequently take part in charity events. Anything from 5k runs, race for life, marathons, parachute jumps, ben nevis climbing, cycle challenges abroad, sponsored walks, etc.
I have always been happy to sponsor my colleauges. I've lost count of the people I've sponsored over the years, but a brief glance at Justgiving history tells me it's a heck of alot. I generally give £10-£20 each person. It isn't just colleagues, it's friends too. I'm always giving to friends who do this. With my colleagues, every year it's the same people doing things and every year I sponsor them.
I am not particularly fit but this year I decided it's my turn to get fit and do something. So I am taking part in a run very soon. I've trained well and I'm chuffed with my progress. Well, three people at work have sponsored me so far and 1 friend. I've made the grand total of £30. The people who sponsored me at work are people who never ever take part in charity events and I have thereofre never sponsored them. The very people who I sponsor year upon year have given me nothing and I'm a little upset. So it seems that the very people who constantly ask for sponsorship (in some cases taking part in two or more events a year) don't want to give it.
There is a minimum sponsorship level of £100 and it looks as though I'm going to have to stump up the missing £70 myself or it'll be majorly embarrassing. It's a major law firm FFS, the senior partners can well afford it and I sponsor them every year.
Obviously I would NEVER say anything to them but my way forward is going to be lesson learned, I will never sponsor anyone ever again. Is that unreasonable?
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A1980 · 22/04/2011 23:41
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