An old friend on facebook (deleted and blocked now) had a child 4 yrs ago who died 4 weeks after birth due to a genetic disorder. She said the hospital killed her. (long story short) She is still trying to get the hospital to say it was them who killed her daughter even though medical reports say it was due to a genetic disorder.
She had a son last year who is now just over 1yr old. Her son is not crawling or walking because he is either in his high chair/pushchair or bouncer all day every day whilst she posts pictures of 'Angel Babies' on her facebook wall after posting about 7-10 of these images posts about getting justice for hospitals killing babies. Her son subsequently suffers through this as he is left in front of CBeebies, she has pics on her facebook of her son and in each picture he is either eating chocolate or chips. He is always filthy (have seen this with own eyes) the house is a tip (by tip i mean The How clean is your house team would enjoy this task) she is now pregnant and smokes and drinks at least 3 glasses of wine a night. (shes told me this) she is under watch with local childrens services for numerous complaints of DV happening there - neighbours complaining about the family the day after she has been running down the street naked black and blue after her husband has beaten her up.
I felt i had to do something, nothing anyone said has made a difference, like when she is posting asking what to do today as bored, when people have made suggestion she goes to park with son she replies with oh no its dirty there and i daren't go out. (she does live in a very rough area, so dont blame her on this one)
So i contacted her local childrens services just to raise my concerns for her son and her unborn child.
WIBU. please dont slate me. i felt i had to do something as i know she avoids health visitors and social workers by pretending not to be in or going out deliberately to avoid them.
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Was i being unreasonable to do this?
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WIBUtodothis · 21/04/2011 23:46
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