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Is my neighbour a big sexist pig or does he just hate me?

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marmaladetwatkins · 20/04/2011 13:57

We've lived here for over a year now. All of the neighbours seem really friendly and inclusive, but the bloke next door I just can't work him out.

He will have lenghty discussions with DH in the street but as good as ignores me. Prime example: last night I am out watering plants and I see NDN approaching his gate. I say "Evening X, how're you?" he goes "Fine." and goes into his house. THEN I have to push a note through his door as the company who are supplying our back garden fencing called to say they are coming friday to fit it. So I write a friendly note saying "Hi X, just to let you know that our new fencing is coming on friday, the men fitting it will have to use the shared access (terraced house), hope this is OK? Do you have any preference with regards to treatment colour? If so, let me know. Thanks! Marmalade"

Got a note back saying "Hi MR TWATKINS, (not adressed to ME, the note writer!) All fine for friday! Thanks for letting me know, X"

I'm being touchy, aren't I?

OP posts:
marmaladetwatkins · 20/04/2011 15:26

Yes, we think it was cluster flies. disappointed in neighbour not being murderer :(

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anonymosity · 20/04/2011 15:42

whatever the reason, most likely cause is down to him, not you. I wouldn't worry about it, carry on as usual.

chocadoodle · 20/04/2011 15:44

My neighbour is the same. My DH has been invited round for a drink, struggles to get away while neighbour prattles on talks to him about anything and everything etc and doesn't even say hello to me.

Not that I mind in the slightest, he is very very odd.

thenameiwantedwastaken · 20/04/2011 16:11

'disappointed in neighbour not being murderer'

ha ha :)

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