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AIBU?

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to be livid with this grumpy old man?

39 replies

disgustedtunbridgewells · 17/04/2011 19:26

Namechanged cos I've already had a good old bitch on FB.

Myself and a friend were sitting in the garden in the sunshine this afternoon, and our kids were playing in a paddling pool and chasing each other with a wee watering can and a water pistol. They're 2 and 3 and were having great fun.

The garden faces directly onto a road, and suddenly a passing car slammed on its brakes, reversed really fast (almost hitting another car at a junction) and stopped at the fence, so thinking it must be someone needing directions I went up to it and asked if I could help.

The bloke shouted at me that the kids had got water on his car. I hadn't noticed the drips on the rear window until this point. I said "I apologise but they're only little and it was an accident." He said "You should have been taking better care of them then". So I asked him if the water had actually gone in the car (his sunroof was open) and he said "No, it's just as well it didn't ..." so I walked off and he left.

I didn't even see what happened but there was a tiny splash of water on one of the back windows of his car, which he must have heard or noticed in his mirror as he was driving past. It seems like a crazy overreaction to me and I was furious that he suggested I wasn't looking after my child adequately. If they'd been deliberately spraying water at passers by then I'd have put a stop to it immediately, of course, but there's no way it could possibly have been intentional and that must have been obvious to him given the layout of our garden in relation to the road, and the size of the children.

So, WIBU?

OP posts:
blondebutonlyfaking · 17/04/2011 20:03

"Officer, I would like to report criminal damage to my car. The sky did it. It did, officer, it made RAIN fall on my car"

Damned sky.

Grin
Itsjustafleshwound · 17/04/2011 20:04
TragicallyHip · 17/04/2011 20:07

Idiot! It's not like he was egged!

thefirstMrsDeVere · 17/04/2011 20:09

OMG I didnt realise she set off his airbag! How hilarious.

Thomas1969 · 17/04/2011 20:14

Hi. This guy is a creep. Children have a right to enjoy themselves, not tiptoe around affraid of splashing a bit of water and you're allowed to let them play. Dont fell guilty he's the freak. U can report people like that if they make a habit of scaring your kids.

disgustedtunbridgewells · 17/04/2011 20:17

It was an ancient wreck as well, could probably have done with a wash Grin

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hpsaucy · 17/04/2011 20:18

Idiot. My parent have a Mad neighbour who complained that her garden got wet when my dad watered his flowers!!!

cheekeymonkey · 17/04/2011 20:19

perhaps he had rabies? It makes you aggrophobic

cheekeymonkey · 17/04/2011 20:20

I meant hydrophobic obviously Blush

thefirstMrsDeVere · 17/04/2011 22:07

that made me L O L Grin

CharlieOscar · 17/04/2011 22:48

I would have punched him in the throat, just like they trained me in the RAF if he'd come that altitude with me. YANBU and he was being a cock.

troisgarcons · 17/04/2011 22:51

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disgustedtunbridgewells · 18/04/2011 06:29

Pikey? Hmm

I haven't got a back garden and I'm not such a snob that I'd keep my DC indoors to keep up appearances.

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Morloth · 18/04/2011 06:57

Sounds like you had a run in with one of the Crazy Folk.

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