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AIBU to think my DH needs to make it up to me for flirting (and more) with the neighbour's friend and for turning my son against me? Plus he said he would not be happy if my ex rang me again.

31 replies

FAB5 · 16/04/2011 16:33

He said he doesn't have anything to apologise to me for as it was in my dream.Hmm

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TidyDancer · 16/04/2011 16:34

Leave him now.

Grin
FAB5 · 16/04/2011 16:35

I think you are right and it should be seriously considered.

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Jaquelinehyde · 16/04/2011 16:36

The bastard how dare he treat you like this.

Pack a bag, go to a friends and file for divorce asap.

If you let him get away with it he will do it again and again. He will never change!!

Grin Grin Grin

Gemsy83 · 16/04/2011 16:37

Thats nothing, mine had a picture with the Sugababes.
I felt so jealous, I hated him, I begged him not to go and spend the evening with those perfectly slim harlots Angry

EasterChickAndRabbitKurri · 16/04/2011 16:38

My DH is badly behaved in dreams too (he once told me I looked hideous in my swim suit Shock)

Your DH definitely needs to make it up to you (start writing a list of suitably remorseful gifts Grin)

worraliberty · 16/04/2011 16:39

I believe the penalty for this sort of crime is a takeaway meal and a bottle of wine...followed by a lie in and breakfast in bed tomorrow.

Does he know nothing ffs? Hmm

ilythia · 16/04/2011 16:41

I once spent the whole day making up to DH, made him coffee, breakfast, even packed him a lunch, because I had dream cheated on him. I still feel a bit guilty about it now.

So if I spent all day apologising, your DH could at least say sorry, incinsiderate bastard.

FAB5 · 16/04/2011 16:42

It isn't the first time he has cheated on me in a dream Angry.

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FAB5 · 16/04/2011 16:44

He has just said he had said he was sorry this morning. Like that makes it all right then. I want chocolate and cake and biscuits.

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Mamazonhereggsclucking · 16/04/2011 16:44

I had a dream the other day that DP had left me and moved in with my neighbour.
I woke up fuming with him.

took me ages to snap out of it.

nickelbaalamb · 16/04/2011 16:44

God, my DH did this to me when I had just fallen pregnant - he even had the cheek to make me have sex with a man (i can't even remember who now!) while he was watching!

FAB5 · 16/04/2011 16:44

See! It isn't just me H!!

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nickelbaalamb · 16/04/2011 16:45

(flirting with someon else - not turning my children against me)

TheCrackFox · 16/04/2011 16:51

DH has cheated on me in a dream. I was a bit huffy with him the next day.

FAB5 · 16/04/2011 16:56

OMG FAB is NORMAL!

I am like other people!

I am not completely weird!!!!!

GrinGrinGrinGrin

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Melly19MummyToBe · 16/04/2011 17:02

I had a dream where me and my DP split up and he was with someone else, I went to our house to get my stuff and he was sat on the sofa in just a pair of blue knickers Confused. I went upstairs to get my stuff and I also took the contents of his boxer and socks drawer thinking "HA! You bastard now you won't have any undies!" It was strange though because although it was our house in the dream, it wasn't our house, it was a mixture of my grandmas house and my mums house! Confused

Melly19MummyToBe · 16/04/2011 17:04

Bizarre pregnancy dreams. Although I am rather enjoying all the orgasm ones :o

DitaVonCheese · 16/04/2011 17:09

DH once raised the antichrist in one of my dreams. He was given the option to do it or not do it, and he bloody did it. I was FURIOUS.

DitaVonCheese · 16/04/2011 17:10

Don't rub it in Melly. Last time I had awesome sex dreams. This time they're all about terrorists and occasionally the NCT Hmm

Melly19MummyToBe · 16/04/2011 17:12

For some reason all my sex dreams include more than one male and they are all 'ahem', rather large downstairs. . . . .

TheCrackFox · 16/04/2011 17:12

Dita - your DH raising the anti-christ is one of the funniest things I have ever read on Mumsnet. Grin

FAB5 · 16/04/2011 17:27

DH is at the shop buying me goodies Grin.

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Maryz · 16/04/2011 17:33

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DitaVonCheese · 16/04/2011 23:29

Crackfox Grin I was LIVID with him for days and then kept remembering why and had to consciously change my mood Blush He was just so bloody casual about it and clearly didn't really think it through, plus it was quite out of character.

Melly, which part of "don't rub it in" don't you understand? Envy

HeadfirstForHalos · 16/04/2011 23:56

I had a dream once where my dh was unfaithful with some anonymous woman- he was in the doghouse for days Grin

YANBU!