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to want to slap that Receptionist....LOTS!

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sugared · 15/04/2011 17:40

I had to speak with db Doctors receptionist this morning as he was unable to continue with the call (he was very upset) and needed to be seen asap and not next week which was what she said, that was the earlist appt she could give him. I took over the call telling her that my db needed to be seen today regarding his mental health and that it was completely out of character and i was concerend for his safety. This was met with ''No, I only have emergency appts'', I told her i deemed this as an emergency ''Well, whats his name?! what is this emergency?! Tel phone number? 'ok i see if a doc will call you' and promptly hung up!

After an hour i called back as i hadn't heard anything only for the call to be again answered by this vile witch. I asked politley as to when a doctor would be available for me to speak with to be told That the doctor who deals with these kind of things was out on a call and would not be available for sometime, I told her again that this was urgent and pointed out there was surely more than one doc/nurse available not just one Her response was well the other doctors are treating paitents with appts and the on call doc was out treating a REAL emergency a child cancer paitent, I could not believe her tone and pointed out that i did not need to be spoken to in that manner and not only was she being unprofessional but that i was sure she breeched Confidentiality. I told her that i would be making a complaint about her only for her to reply that she was going to make a formal complaint about ME?! I ask who she would complain to and pointed out she didnt even know MY name, She said I've got your brothers! I laughed and said she was being quite absurbed>

Now this is what pissed me off......''I can see that you are having one of your little tatrums''!!!? OMG how fucking dare she patronise me, That was it, Excuse me i asked, I am having one of my little tatrums? Well i know your upset about your brother but theres nothing i can do about it has been passed to the relevent tray, it's up to the doctor to call you and again hung up!
Only to call me back within minutes whislt i was working myself up into a frenzy to give me an appt for my db within 30mins, I said thank you and i will see you soon, Went into surgery and mrs mouth was not where to be seen, I asked for the practice managers name and intend to write a letter of complaint.

I have never before spoken with this woman EVER, Never even been to that surgery before, There was no need what so ever for the tone and sarcaism .....am not being unreasonable am sure but i do need help in writng this letter to manager or it will be left to a big rambling rant like above and i want it to be taken seriously. Any ideas?

Db was seen and treated and referred to hospital.

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Vev · 15/04/2011 22:11

Complain. Hope your brother's better soon.

MrsMcgee · 15/04/2011 22:17

I never understand why people become receptionists when they so clearly hate people!!

I've experienced some shockers - there was the one when I had severe PND and having regular drs appointments, I called one day to see if there were any appointments on another day that week as I was ill, she said no so I said I would go anyway.
Arrived on time for her to say I had cancelled the appointment and shout at me very rudely in front of a full waiting room. I cried!!

Sorry you've had such a rubbish day, write a letter if you can, I don't imagine this is an isolated incident.

SkinittingFluffyBunnyBonnets · 15/04/2011 22:19

People like that receptionist shouldn't be in such postions...there areplenty of kind and empthetic people to fill her role.

I hope your DB is better soon.

Knackeredmother · 15/04/2011 23:14

Complain complain complain. Most of the time the gps have no idea how their reception staff behave and I would be horrified if one of my patients had endured this.
Btw I have been On the recieving end of a power hungry receptionist with a medical degree and I understand how difficult it is to speak up.
Good luck

sugared · 17/04/2011 15:01

Thank you all for your kind comments and info...Pals..NHs, appt with practise manager etc

I do intend to complain to every possible person i can regarding her behaviour.

I understand that receptionists have a lot to deal with...I have been one myself, but never in a million year would i dare to speak someone like that.

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Mishy1234 · 17/04/2011 15:13

Absolutely complain. She was completely out of order speaking to you like that. A perfect example of someone who shouldn't be in that job.

I'm very sorry about the awful way she treated you and your DB.

RunAwayWife · 17/04/2011 15:34

Do complain in writing, she clearly has no idea how to do her job with compassion.

HOPE YOU BROTHER IS BETTER SOON

wendihouse22 · 17/04/2011 18:46

Make a written complaint to the practice manager.

Unacceptable.

MotherSnacker · 17/04/2011 18:48

Thats the way people with MH probs get treated all to often.

Very wrong

Complain

Hercomesthesun · 17/04/2011 19:25

Please complain. Smack that bitch for me too. Let s know what happens please

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