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AIBU to be incensed by this DM article - reluctant 'housedad'

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Rhinestone · 14/04/2011 12:57

here

What a juvenile, petulant, pathetic, sniveling excuse for a 'man'. Am racking my brains for what his good-looking wife sees in him.

Must give up reading the DM.

OP posts:
BoffinMum · 14/04/2011 14:40

Imagine publicly saying all this, even if you thought it ...

onehellofaride · 14/04/2011 14:45

why is she with him?? Confused she is pretty, he looks like he comes from the magic faraway tree

colditz · 14/04/2011 14:58

I asked the father of my children who he'd save from a fire once - me or the baby.

he looked cornered for a second and spluttered "Err, err, the baby butI'dcomebackforyou!!!"

I said "Well done"

LadyWithNoManors · 14/04/2011 15:03

His is a dick with a big fat pumpkin head.
God she could do so much better.
I'd leave him to his infantile snivelling and go and find a real man.

SpotsMumSally · 14/04/2011 15:04

He looks very much like a miserable hamster. I wonder who thought out the child placement in the first photo with the step daughter at the back.

I personally would not want to live with someone who did not place out children first.

SpotsMumSally · 14/04/2011 15:05

X posts - agree has with colditz. Had roughly the same "talk" with DH.

LadyWithNoManors · 14/04/2011 15:06

Also am I the only one who if forced to choose between my partner and my childs life would not hesitate to choose my child?
I don't know maybe that makes me strange or says a lot about my relationship with DP.

Hammy02 · 14/04/2011 15:06

I think the seeds of his odd attitude probably stem from his nutty mother saying she would put his father's life ahead of her children's. That would screw anyone up.

colditz · 14/04/2011 15:08

I think most people would choose their child, wouldn't they?

SpotsMumSally · 14/04/2011 15:09

Sorry for typos, can't get used to laptop Blush

SpotsMumSally · 14/04/2011 15:11

There have been quite a few threads where some people would choose their partner, there was a big one after a female journalist wrote something about her husband.

olderandwider · 14/04/2011 15:21

I found the piece not especially shocking actually. Many men do exist in two states of mind - love the kids/resent them when they get in the way.
It all boils down to this: men can be selfish. Well, stripe me pink.

hocuspontas · 14/04/2011 15:27

That first photo looks tampered with. He and the step-daughter have different colour faces to the rest.

doley · 14/04/2011 15:36

I can not stand this ASS , I made the mistake of reading another of his wailings a while back .

Look at his face , like he has too many female hormones plus a set of hips !

Anyway ,its a poorly written article, purely done to whip up the masses !

microserf · 14/04/2011 15:36

YANBU, but it's the usual OTT DM fare. Pays the mortgage.

Weird looking guy though, made me think of moon-face from the Faraway Tree.

diddl · 14/04/2011 15:39

"I just keep scrolling back to look in gobsmacked horror at his face."
"he looks like he comes from the magic faraway tree"

OMG I am screaming with laughter at these.

"His is a dick with a big fat pumpkin head."Shock-I presume you mean "he"-but funny either wayGrin

"He looks very much like a miserable hamster."-and that is just insulting to hamsters, miserable or otherwise & gives the guy way too much creditGrin

I do think most would choose the child.
However, if he was as much of a dick as a teenager as he is an adult, I think his mum answered quite well!

hocuspontas · 14/04/2011 15:39

In his wedding photo he looks like Jonathan King Shock

Insomnia11 · 14/04/2011 15:40

Sigh

Basically what they do is pay someone for an interview and a photo. Then the journalist makes something completely different up, which may or may not have a passing similarity to the words spoken in the interview. Most people are too poor to sue them for defamation.

One of the reasons I don't read newspapers.

This is how it works:

nosleeptilbrooklands.blogspot.com/2011/01/true-story-of-daily-mail-lies-guest.html

diddl · 14/04/2011 15:42

Have just read the first bit again.

Talks about asking his mum a "challenging" question, that he was a "challenging" boy & that she "gave as good as got".

So you would think that by now he would have moved on.

diddl · 14/04/2011 15:45

"Basically what they do is pay someone for an interview and a photo."

But I thought it was his own piece, not by a journalist.

Not that it means it´s all true, of course, but rather that he has made it up about himself.

mumonahottinroof · 14/04/2011 15:49

Insomnia is totally right
And as I have already said, it may be his own piece but it will have been heavily tampered with and almost certainly bear no relation to the light-hearted piece he originally wrote

crockydoodle · 14/04/2011 15:58

Isn't his wife the one who wrote about her life every week in Take a Break? I quite liked her.

diddl · 14/04/2011 16:03

"it may be his own piece but it will have been heavily tampered with and almost certainly bear no relation to the light-hearted piece he originally wrote"

Perhaps he should have had more sense than to sell to the DM, then?

limitedperiodonly · 14/04/2011 16:03

Posted this on a thread in Chat but I'm making no apologies for repeating myself because I think more people should know about Keith Kendrick's special talents.

www.guardian.co.uk/media/2001/apr/03/pressandpublishing5?INTCMP=ILCNETTXT3487

this was the leaked memo:

www.guardian.co.uk/media/2001/apr/03/pressandpublishing4

SpotsMumSally · 14/04/2011 16:19

Looks like a 14 year old's fantasy school project (the mens mag list).