I was not sure where to post this message.
I have discussed this problem with family and have been ignoring it for nearly a year. It is so pathetic and childish and I am annoyed at myself for wasting time thinking about it!
My DS (11) had BF until about year ago. They fell out and both moved on. They then made up but both have different friends now. I stopped speaking to the other mom because I found out she had been talking about me and DS to others (about the boys issue).
For nearly a year I feel as though the other mom has been stalking me. Every time I speak to someone new she will then go out to make friends with them. Each time my DS plays with a child, she will then invite same child to her house. I have always ignored it but cannot believe it is still continuing.
A parent (casual chit-chat) told me the other day that her and her friend had had a disagreement over their DS'S. When she went to resolve it with her friend, her friend told her she had over reacted and was probably because "I" had been poisioning her against her friend.
Apparently this had been said by my stalker. Suffice to say, the parent was stumped at this comment, and as she told her friend, we only chit chat, weather, hols etc.
I could list other things she has said and done but cant be bothered. I am however a bit concerned now as she does not seem to be giving up. I have started to avoid situations (even the local park) to avoid her.
Do I continue to ignore, do I say something to her?