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to be frustrated by charity shop wanting to display items rather than sell them...

86 replies

5Foot5 · 13/04/2011 13:48

I have no nice tea cups and saucers. In fact I have none at all, nice or otherwise. I have a china dinner service which we got as a wedding present but that only has coffee cups. Over the years we have had various "everyday" tea cups but these are currently at an all time low. (None) Mostly this matters not as we drink out of mugs and have plenty of those.

However, at Christmas I was bought a lovely three tier cake stand, something I have always wanted. With Easter approaching and guests expected I decided it would be nice one day to serve a "proper" afternoon tea. Little sandwiches with the crusts cut off, home made scones and cake - you get the picture. In fact if that went well I thought we might do something similar at the Royal Wedding.

So, I had to address the tea cup question. I didn't want and couldn't afford to spend a great deal of money on new china so I decided to look around the charity shops to see what they had to offer. In the window of one (Help the Aged) they had a rather nice set of six Ainsley china tea cups and saucers for £25. I thought this was quite good but decided to look at all the others first. Nowhere else came close - either they were very ordinary and bleak or the sets were incomplete or contained only four of everything.

After thinking it over (and on receipt of a small win on the lottery!) I decided to go back today and buy the Ainsley set if it was still there. Well it was and on second viewing I liked it even more than I had at first. I did notice that since my last visit they had decorated the window on a Royal Wedding theme. Everyone is doing it aren't they?

But when I went in and told the lady at the counter that I was interested in the china in the window she said that she couldn't sell me anything on display there! When I enquired why she explained that as the window had been arranged to celebrate the RW they were not allowed to move or remove anything until after the big day. She could take my name and telephone number and I could go back and buy it after 29th April but that was the best she could do!

Well I left it. I need teacups NOW. But can you imaging an ordinary business taking that attitude?

Sorry if this is a bit of a long rant about teacups but I am quite disappointed and casting about now for ideas where I can get something as nice without spending too much Sad

OP posts:
listsandbudgets · 23/01/2017 12:06

Springer look at the date of the first posting - April 2011!!!

C8H10N4O2 · 23/01/2017 12:07

Seriously - I can understand them saying 'come back at the end of the week' but are they really planning to freeze the display for three months?? If I'd donated the items I'd send future donations to a charity focused on its objective rather than a static window display.

BTW - which RW? I seemed to have missed it.

insertcleverusername · 23/01/2017 12:09

Banging head against a wall and screaming inside....

FloweryTwat · 23/01/2017 12:16

Oooo is there a Royal Wedding?

Grin

Sorry insert couldn't resist

MrsHathaway · 23/01/2017 12:31

Aaaaawh I vaguely remember this thread from the first time. DS2 was newborn.

He's at SCHOOL today.

PickAChew · 23/01/2017 12:34

tum te tum

to be frustrated by charity shop wanting to display items rather than sell them...
Emmageddon · 23/01/2017 12:37

Oh bugger I thought I'd missed an announcement about Prince Harry getting married.

BarbaraofSeville · 23/01/2017 12:38

I was halfway down the first post and thought 'what Royal wedding' not giving a stuff about tea sets, and went off to check the news because I'd also seen Prince Harry on the 'people are talking about' section of FB and put 2 and 2 together and got about 17 and thought 'that's a bit quick' but now I see it's a zombie.

But I do like your smileys Annie

BarbaraofSeville · 23/01/2017 12:38

Great minds, Emma

liz70 · 23/01/2017 12:39

Ooh, is Harry to marry?

Grin
alltoomuchrightnow · 23/01/2017 12:43

i honestly thought, Harry and Meghan?!!!
And then saw the date.

DrinkFeckArseGirls · 23/01/2017 12:45

Yes i know it's a ⚰️ Fred but (!) whilst I understand that charity shops want to have themed displays - who's going to buy thise themed items after the event?!

Notanotherpawpatrol · 23/01/2017 13:08

Oohhh Prince Harry is getting married?! 😜

justforthisthread1 · 23/01/2017 13:20

ooh lovely a Royal Wedding Grin Grin Grin

Sorry all

Manumission · 23/01/2017 13:25

Ah bless it was a Charity Shop Manager on a PR mission Smile

Toomuchginger · 23/01/2017 13:33

YANBU. My lical charity shop has the most beautiful ladies shopping bike in the window, complete with Miss Marple style basket. I asked could i buy it and the woman jnnthere said no it was only for display and "we could have sold that ten times over." Angry I was happy to pay well for it but they wouldnt even give me a price!

karenjo69 · 26/01/2017 07:11

sarcasm!!! lowest form of wit

Celaena · 26/01/2017 07:17

how on earth do zombie reposters even FIND these threads?

Because they've searched for something and this is whats come up and not noticed the date?

LilacSpatula · 26/01/2017 07:18

I had this with a coat/hat stand at Christmas but it's beautiful and we love it so we didn't mind. We paid and it was reserved for us.

LilacSpatula · 26/01/2017 07:19

Grrrrr

borntobequiet · 26/01/2017 07:38

A nice Royal Wedding might cheer us all up and make Britain Great Again.
I've given up on the charity shops here, too much styling and silly prices.

CommonFramework · 26/01/2017 07:42

ZOMBIE THREAD!

Liiinoo · 26/01/2017 07:45

Why do people get so het up over zombie threads?

Rixera · 26/01/2017 07:48

The necromancer must have been so proud of those kimonos looking beautiful for Chinese new year.
Too bad kimonos are Japanese. You probably wanted qipaos.

NormaSmuff · 26/01/2017 08:06

Grin RIxera