to be bloody pissed off?!

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MIL wanted to take kids out for hour yesterday but then cancelled then told DH she'd have them today with other 2 grandkids (had issues with this before she can't HANDLE 5 kids uder 6)

So I told DH yesterday I didn't want the kids going today.

He didn't tell her,

cue her ringing all fucking morning and now DH has taken the kids round even though its a beautiful sunny day and I was really enjoying having them playing in the garden for the firsat time this year.

And because she can't handle them DH has to STAY there too so won't finish the fucking gardening now.

Plus DS1 is ill but refused to stay with me as he didn't want to miss out so has gone there even though hes unwell.

The other grandkids are well, a handful and my kids always come back with conjuncivitis (sp?!) after playing with them

Am just super pissed off.

And before anyone asks... no I didn't want to go too.

If your children and your DH are actually enjoying being round there, then perhaps you should allow them the privilege of making their own decisions.

Your children don't exist just to provide entertainment for you in your garden on a sunny day. I would imagine they're having a great time outdoors with their cousins anyway.

YANBU because she changed yesterdays plans when you could have done something if you'd had warning. And then you had to cahnge today. But mostly your right that this going to be the last chance for a while to have a lovely relaxing day in the sunshine (weather due to change next week) before the new arrival. Surely she'd be more useful having them for a week the day after the babies born.

Best of luck btw [smile[