To think my dh should at least acknowledge the fact it's our anniversary

[breakfastbiscuit]

Obv background issues that are to much for one thread but really would it even be to much to say happy anniversary.

Has not looked at the cards or anything, I know he def knows it's today.

Aibu to order myself Chinese and open a bottle of wine and not offer him any, he is making himself cheesy pasta with value ham mixed in

Go ahead and order the takeaway.

I don't know your background, but things are not going to get any better if he doesn't even acknowledge the day.

Do you think you should talk to him about this, because it is so sad for neither of you to say anything when you are both aware of the date.

Last wedding anniversary both my husband and I only remembered when the card from his grandma turned up. It was our first wedding anniversary, too,so I'd say YABU. But people tell me I'm weird...

sod him
If he wants to play silly buggers--let him
Order your takeaway and pour the wine, l will join you if he won't
His loss

You poor thing! It's our anniversary too today. DH did get me a card. Unfortunately, he left the price on - 59p from Wilkos .

Still it's the though that counts - and he is cooking something nice with a bottle of wine.

Have your takeaway. Maybe he'll get a dodgy stomach from the value "ham"

It's def not a case of forgetfulness, he acts weird on most of my birthdays, mothers day etc. Thankfully kids are old enough now to make those things special.

Most days I can plod along and think things could be worse but when it's a actual date with significance I over think things.

What did he say when you said happy anniversary to him?

Tis our anniversary tomorrow and DH totally forgot, like every year. I've organised everything for us to go for lunch (he forgot to the extent he's working that evening) childcare etc.

Enjoy the takeaway. And don't let him pinch any!

Btw no big recent problem or issue to cause this. We are not recovering from a affair or anything, this is just my life.

At least my mum always manages to make me feel special and had booked a weekend away for us ( dh and I) which he will happily go on

So did he not reply at all when you wished him happy anniversary?

YANBU, that's hurtful.