MK79810 - with all due respect, how deluded are you?! 
You must be one of those people who is married to someone from the same town as you, and who has both sets of grandparents right around the corner, and all family as well.
Me, I'm a Kiwi married to an Irishman and we were living in London. We now live in New Zealand. In order for our kids (one baby, one toddler) to see their grandparents, uncles and Godparents, flights on airplanes are a necessity.
But yes, I guess it could be construed as selfish for us to want them all to, um, meet and, I dunno, have some sort of bond and relationship... 
As for Ryan Air - a friend of mine (Irish, lives in the UK) who used to work for them says she will never travel with them again, not after her last experience of them, flying with two young children.