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mother in law
twerpstomper · 06/04/2011 22:25
our son was stillborn at 38 weeks. my mother in law who has very little to do with our 2 other children had a tatoo of my sons name and date of birth she tells me and my hubby how much pain shes in coz of loss of grandson and all i want to say is how about showing our two living children a bit of attention. Everytime I see the tatoo it makes me so angry. I think she should have asked us what we felt about it before she had it done. Is cutting her arm off unreasonable
JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns · 06/04/2011 22:33
she is a very sad women, your husband has the right attitude tbh, you need to concentrate on your family and leave her to it, she is missing out and one day she will look back with regret, she cant continue to use your ds to get attention atleast not from you, please make a clean break, let her crawl back when she learns how to treat people
FabbyChic · 06/04/2011 22:34
Sorry for your loss, you should remind her it was you who lost the child and you who knows more than anyone the pain it causes, however there are two little ones that are here and that do need love and attention and they shouldn't be forgotton in the name of grief.
twerpstomper · 06/04/2011 22:44
asked her today why she wasnt coming to dd 6th birthday party her reply was because all dd friends and family would be there!!! I replied thats what a bday party is all about getting together to celebrate! very strange reason for not coming!!!which hurts my feelings i lost my mum last november and my dd wants her grandma there so much I have no control over that. so realy wanted her nanny there for her
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