mother in law

[twerpstomper]

our son was stillborn at 38 weeks. my mother in law who has very little to do with our 2 other children had a tatoo of my sons name and date of birth she tells me and my hubby how much pain shes in coz of loss of grandson and all i want to say is how about showing our two living children a bit of attention. Everytime I see the tatoo it makes me so angry. I think she should have asked us what we felt about it before she had it done. Is cutting her arm off unreasonable

[squeakytoy]

Sorry for your loss :( , and no, you are not being unreasonable. I would be livid. What does your husband say about it?

[Newgolddream]

Im so sorry for your loss and nothing anyone can say will make you feel better, but you are in my thoughts. Emotions will be running high just now.

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

deffinatly not, can i do it for you

[CocktailQueen]

Twerp, I'm so sorry. Hugs.

As for your MIL, how bizarre she is. No idea why she's done that. Have you asked her why she's done it and why she ignores your DCs?

[twerpstomper]

husband wants nothing to do with mum because of attitude towards are littleones! and yes anyone is welcome to chop her arm off for me!!

[bubblecoral]

So very sorry for your sad loss.

It sounds like she is an attention seeking sort of person that wants to make everthing about herself.

People that do things like that are usually seriously lacking something in their lives.

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

got it covered... anytime twerps.

[twerpstomper]

that is so accurate do you know my mil

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

she is a very sad women, your husband has the right attitude tbh, you need to concentrate on your family and leave her to it, she is missing out and one day she will look back with regret, she cant continue to use your ds to get attention atleast not from you, please make a clean break, let her crawl back when she learns how to treat people

[FabbyChic]

Sorry for your loss, you should remind her it was you who lost the child and you who knows more than anyone the pain it causes, however there are two little ones that are here and that do need love and attention and they shouldn't be forgotton in the name of grief.

[squeakytoy]

She sounds like my husbands ex-wife. It is exactly the sort of thing she would do, to get sympathy and attention. She thrives on making everyone know how upset she is about things, and turns it into being all about her.

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

its quite shocking how many people there are like this out there, im thinking of you twerps

[twerpstomper]

asked her today why she wasnt coming to dd 6th birthday party her reply was because all dd friends and family would be there!!! I replied thats what a bday party is all about getting together to celebrate! very strange reason for not coming!!!which hurts my feelings i lost my mum last november and my dd wants her grandma there so much I have no control over that. so realy wanted her nanny there for her

[blackeyedsusan]

I think tattoos hurt... take comfort in that...

got a rusty saw under the stairs could leave it in the garden in the rain and i wouldn't be disappointed if it went missing

Sorry for your loss. ditto fabby chic

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

very strange, seriously dont let her get to you, seems like she has ALOT of issues.

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

blackeyed just made me spit-spray water on my laptop

[twerpstomper]

so glad i came on here your comments have lifted my mood thank u x will be back

[twerpstomper]

blackeyed very grateful for use of very rusty saw

[JjandtheBeanlovesUnicorns]

twerp be warned its highly addictive, i visited 2yrs ago for bf/ff advice and never left, i popped online to check mail and two hours later im still here...