to think dh should give footy a miss...

[lynds1]

when he's been away (for work) for 8 days? Dh has been abroad for 8 days & returned on Sunday. We spent the day visiting our respective mothers with it being mothers day, whilst he pretty much ignored the fact that im a mother too! Then he fell asleep as soon as we got home as he was really jet lagged - fair enough. I bathed the ds's & got them to bed. Yesterday he was back to work as usual so I was really looking forward to us having a nice family dinner - but instead he decided to go to his usual weekly footy game. I'm so annoyed. I don't normally mind him going to football at all but really thought he should stay at home with us on this one occasion when we'd barely seen him in over a week. Even poor eldest ds (6) said 'it's not fair, we've hardly seen daddy'.


It's his birthday today & I found it impossible to be friendly this morning before he went to work - now I feel guilty I've ruined his birthday by being cross!
AIBU???

[pink4ever]

I cant beilieve the shit op is getting on here! NO YANBU-maybe your dh was away working hard but so were you! Not too much to expect for him to give up footie for one night to spend time with his family.But then there is no way in hell I would put up with dh going to footie every week,the pub every friday and various other social events(hes not a single man-do you ever remind him of this?).