to expect 10 year old DH not to lose her uniform?

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I mean, the girl came home without her school shoes......barefoot!!! How does that even happen??!

your husband is a 10 year old schoolgirl ???

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haha at DH!

how would you forget shoes?

ds(9) keeps losing jumpers but i imagine that's the norm

i would talk to the teachers....

what did he she say? seriously, shoe-hiding is a classic and nasty bullying tactic. Is all well with her friendship group?

All I can say is that my eldest is a somewhat absent minded nine year old boy - and loses his shoes, too. In his favour, he just changes into his p e trainers!

I would be worried as well that she is being bullied and had her shoes taken off her.

I don't know how that can physically happen unless someone has taken them off her. Because if she'd just done barefoot PE and couldn't find them when getting changed again surely she would have told the teacher, or the teacher or a child would have noticed she was barefoot and she wouldn't have been allowed to go home until they or spares were found, and if they were totally lost you would have been called to collect her as I can't see any school knowingly allowing a child to walk home shoeless.

I agree that it sounds weird and hard to believe that a school would let a child out without shoes. Could bullies have taken them from her after school had finished? What does she say happened? And is she normally prone to losing things?

LOL!! Hadn't realised I'd typed DH instead of DD....obviously I was distracted at the time!
She is prone to losing things. She says her feet got hot after PE and she took them off in the changing room then somehow proceeded to the school bus without them!
We've talked about bullying and she's an outgoing confident girl who has no trouble speaking up for herself or telling someone else about it if she feels it's out of her control
Basically she just spends so much time away with the fairies that she does the strangest things!
Thanks for letting me vent :0