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Thinking this phrase is out of order?

44 replies

AuntiePickleBottom · 26/03/2011 00:54

ok, just been on a girls night out, i was with someone who used the phaze in the title.

aibu to think that the rape term should not be used like this

OP posts:
CheerfulYank · 26/03/2011 08:24

Let me tell you from personal friggin' experience...there's no luck involved. Angry

DaisyDaresYOU · 26/03/2011 10:07

I've heard this saying before.I think on tv.I think it's horrible and insulting to us victims

Abcinthia · 26/03/2011 10:09

Wow that is so disgusting Angry

SardineQueen · 26/03/2011 10:17

I don't even understand what it means? What was she trying to say?

hissymissy · 26/03/2011 10:31

It sounds to me like a throwaway comment someone made when they were stupidly drunk, complaining about the fact they hadn't got laid for a long time. It sin't a nice comment, and I doubt very much she really means it.

However, people do say stupid thoughtless things from time to time, especially when they are in their cups. What is this friend like normally? Are they prone to this kind of ignorance, or is it just a one off abberation?

Don't make too much of a big deal about it, unless this is an example of her normal behaviour.

SteviesWifeIsBack · 26/03/2011 11:12

No..the evil bastards were never caught. Not to my knowledge anyway. It's very disturbing their view on women, "men" like that. Someone never gets over something that bad. R.I.P poor, brave Sharlen. :(

onehotmomma · 26/03/2011 11:21

:( am lost for words. Poor girl

ZZZenAgain · 26/03/2011 11:21

me too, can'tr find words

ShortArseFuck · 26/03/2011 11:24

This is totally and utterly unacceptable.

Fimbo · 26/03/2011 11:29

Vile Angry

I hate the term facebook raped as well though, I am quite surprised at the amount of people who do use it though.

AyeRobot · 26/03/2011 11:33

Inexcusable.

Did you challenge her?

LyingWitchInTheWardrobe2726 · 26/03/2011 11:40

Sorry OP, but what response exactly did you think to get? It's such a bizarre and unnecessary question. I really wonder at the thought behind asking it. Hmm

FabbyChic · 26/03/2011 11:41

I think it's a disgusting thing to say. I guess you could say then I was lucky enough.

It's a really bad title, gave me the heebeee geeebies.

mayorquimby · 26/03/2011 12:25

any context given yet?
Presume it was a woman saying it in what was meant to be a shock-value joke about her not getting laid in a while.

MeRightYouWrongMeBigYouSmall · 26/03/2011 12:51

OP you should've challenged this woman at the time.

StewieGriffinsMom · 26/03/2011 12:55

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

maighdlin · 26/03/2011 13:02

with attitudes like that its no wonder victims feel like they are not taken seriously Angry

happiernow · 26/03/2011 13:16

I guess iv been really really fucking LUCKY then?

huddspur · 26/03/2011 13:18

It does seem a very strange thing to say

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