to wish he had never returned?

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I posted another thread yesterday called 'to not go to the airport to receive him'.
I didn't go, I felt bad and knew that he and the rest of the family including my own will think ' what a bitch' I am.

But I am glad I stayed strong and didn't go, because if I had gone then maybe I would have 'given him the wrong msg' and he may assume that their is some chance of reconciliation.

Having him live far away from us for the past 5 wks has actually helped me to have a feel of how things are without him being able to call round, as and when he feels like it. And to be honest I prefer it. Life was soooo much less stressful. The kids I was able to cope with, it's just his unreasonable, selfish, controlling and manipulative self I can't cope with.

Ahhhhh what a lovely partner you are .....

/sarcasm

Can you use it as a wake up call as to how much you need to put your foot down to keep him from your life?

Apart from suggesting you move continent house i'm not sure what you need to do to get your message across...

If you're going to do a thread about a thread, could you at least provide a link? Your OP doesn't even say who this 'he' is???

I remember your thread well done you ! He sounded horrible. I am pleased you did not go

Same as cazza. Thanks for the update. Change the locks is you haven't already done so. R.E.S.P.E.C.T. for not going x

Read your original thread......well done for staying strong....it's about you and the dcs, not him. He sounded a total twat btw.