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To object to a friend taking the points for her partner's speeding violation?

42 replies

Longstocking2 · 23/03/2011 22:21

Even if it is possible?
That's fraud isn't it?

OP posts:
FlorenceCalamityandJoanofArc · 23/03/2011 23:33

I'm not in UK. 2 points, no photo of driver. So yes, no big deal for me as a once off.

LoveBeingKnockedUp · 23/03/2011 23:34

Yes it is against the law, also need to remember the insurance especially if you get found out you wod have to declare it.

ilovesooty · 23/03/2011 23:36

FlorenceCalamityandJoanofArc fraud doesn't bother you then?

SharonGless · 23/03/2011 23:36

If not in the UK then would be interested to know what the penalty would be if found out? Not big and not clever imo

FlorenceCalamityandJoanofArc · 23/03/2011 23:41

Who'll find out what? That several years ago I didn't put another name on a form that came in my name, for points that are now spent? I won't lie awake worrying anyway.

Who said it was big or clever? I just think you're all being a bit sanctimonious about it.

lockets · 23/03/2011 23:44

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ilovesooty · 23/03/2011 23:45

Sanctimonious = disapproving of fraud/dishonesty then. Hmm

BitOfFun · 23/03/2011 23:47

It's not so much that I disapprove of the fraud- more that I object to the sense of entitlement of the (often male) driver who expects you to absorb his incompetence.

cumfy · 23/03/2011 23:52

Show her this

Judge got 3 years for precisely this. :o

FlorenceCalamityandJoanofArc · 23/03/2011 23:52

nobody expected me to do anything. Fixed penalty notice came in my name, big long form if you need to nominate the driver if someone else, dh's work its better if he has a clean license. So I didn't assign the points to him, big whoop. Fine was paid, very much doubt anyone would care, police here wouldn't give a bollox.

cumfy · 23/03/2011 23:54

OTOH Helen Archer seems to be doing OK.

BitOfFun · 23/03/2011 23:55

If you're not bothered, Flo, I'm not. But I don't expect to be told "No biggie" and to suck it up when it's my own licence unjustly in jeopardy.

FlorenceCalamityandJoanofArc · 23/03/2011 23:56

totally agree with you there bof. Smile

Rohanda · 24/03/2011 00:09

I can't believe this would be a 'one off' either. An habitual speedster one caution away from losing a licence should have the thought of a consequence of further speeding. And allowing a fraud act to help get away with it means he avoids the responsibility now, which gives a permisson to do it again later on.

yes OP, I'd object but wouldn't tell them as much. Just not agree with them if they raised it, and why. As expat says, speed kills, and often children. Adults can recover better due to bulk. (tho' kids do sometimes bounce off cars better.)

Rohanda · 24/03/2011 00:31

also YABU for using the word 'violation' in the title. It's an 'offense' anywhere outside of N. America.Grin. Or was he done by CHiP?

BitOfFun · 24/03/2011 00:48

Oh, I remember CHiPs! I loved the dark-haired one Grin

Rohanda · 24/03/2011 00:53

Bat your eyelids and you'd get off with a 'warning', I'm sure.Grin

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