Probably not the right place to post, but I really need quick responses, before I contact the relevant persons. This is very long btw, sorry
Incident happened on way home from school Friday before last. Was walking home, with DD in buggy, and DS 7, along with other mums.
A little boy attacked my nephew, my nephew said to the boys mum "your DS just push me into hedge, and was kicking me" the mums reply? she ignored my nephew. Thankfully nephew lives yards from school, so was home within 2 minutes of incident.
Next, the same little boy, went into someones garden, dragged 2 little boys who were sat on the garden wall [waiting for their mums to catch up], one of the boys run out of garden, to find his mum, the other little boy was pulled to the floor, stood on the chest, repeatedly jumped on, and kicked in the head, by the nasty little boy.
The mother seen it, casually walked into the garden grabbed, her sons arm, walked back up the garden path, saying "my boy is always hitting that kids for some reason". Leaving the other little boy on the floor, never checked he was ok, or even wait for the little boys mum to apologise, explain etc.
By this time I was gobsmacked. Having left the garden with her son in toe, she let him loose again, to run ahead, which he headed straight for my DS and started kicking him
Mother did fook all, I tried catching them up,while the mother casually walked along ignoring what he was doing, I shouted to the little boy to stop, the 2 boys were heading towards a busy road, and I was frightened, one would push the other into the road.
The mother, grabbed her son, and walked off ahead of us [the mum is normally a family friend ]
The following Monday, my nephews mum, and one of the other boys mum, made a complaint to the school regarding this, as this little boy has had numerous previous violence in school, the school had decided to do more than what they had previously [which had been, have a word with mum when picking the boy up]. The school called the mum into school, and they had an official meeting, to which would go on record.
That night my car window was smashed,[the boys nan, lives next door to me]I know the family well so know they were responsible, I assume they thought I was one of the mums who was responsible for talking to the school .Police was called etc, no proof
I notified the school and stated to avoid confrontation, i would be taking my son home from school, at 2.30pm. Which they were supportive about.
However, the mother had decided to leave early to pick her son up, which resulted in confrontation, as the family are known for smashing cars, windows etc,they had gone to their house first that morning.
She denied etc, and we left calmly agreeing to leave it all be. I know they were responsible, but didnt want a war zone everytime I took my son to school.
We parked our car, in different places until FRiday, when we had a family weekend away, was worried about my house while away, but the police officer had assured me, he was working all weekend, so would check it. Also gave a friend the key, she put the hoover on, music etc, to make them think we were home
Nothing happened to house, had a alovely weekend, travelled back yesterday morning, baby was sick in car, DD 12yrs, wiped what she could as we were 5 mins away from house. Arrived home, friend who had key was there. Opened the door [left baby in car seat while I got clean clothes for her, also she was sleeping]
Having sorted clothes etc, went out to get baby, low and behold, the boys nan was outside her house, screming at me, she hit me, wrestled me to the floor etc. Its was so bad, my DD12yo had to step over us to get the baby out of the car. The nan was screaming my son was a bastard, spiteful etc. My son was in the house listening to all of this.friend in my house called the police
After it happened, went back into my house, friend stated my DS, was so frightened, he had run into a gap between the sofa and a sideunit, in a ball and screamed
Police arrested her, she admitted it, cautioned because she aint been in trouble with police since 2001.
I phoned headmaster. Stated what had happened, explained my son is terrified, he told me he was not sure as to what he could do, because it was not the little boy who did it.He was going to contatc council to see what powers they had[which he thinks is nothing]
Phone council [council house btw]. Without even mentioning their names, the officer knew who I was talking about [they massive aggressive reputation] He stated that, I could be moved if I like. However, he stated he was having the family in the end of the week. About the mess in garden, and their general hygiene in the home[house really is extremely bad, they all smell, unwashed, police said they were ruff ruff ruff] He also stated that this family was so close to eviction, but decisions are made during the meeting with the tenants, not before.
Do I send my son back to school, do I move [knowing they are quite possibly going to be evicted anyway]
Im terrified for my son, he weed the bed last night sorry if it confusing, I will clarify things if needed
Add message | Report | Message poster kreecherlivesupstairs Tue 22-Mar-11 08:58:03
Blimey, I think in your situation I would keep my son off school and keep my fingers firmly crossed that this family are evicted.