"While you're all busy slagging off fathers in general"
No one is slagging off fathers in general.
We're slagging off deadbeat ones who don't support their children. Any particular reason why they shouldn't be slagged off?
"This is NOT just about feckless fathers versus single mothers" Well actually, it is. If there were no such thing as feckless fathers, or, let's be less idealistic, if they represented a small, but statistically unimportant section of NRP's, the CSA would not need to exist, it would never have been set up.
It was set up because the majority of NRP's did not pay maintenance. More than 2 decades later, in spite of the CSA's existence, the majority of NRP's still don't pay maintenance.
I sense I'm wasting my breath here too. No one is saying that there aren't good men out there who do their level best for their kids. The problem is, they are in a minority. The deadbeats outnumber them. 60% remember. (Am I wasting my breath too?
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