Hi, I'm 27 a single mum to dd 6. Her dad has her every other weekend. I have been with my bf 4 months now who works every day of the week. we see each other most days as he'll come round before/after work depending on his pattern. Basically, when the weekend comes round that i don't have my dd i like to go out. Not to get drunk i enjoy pampering myself, getting dressed and making an effort and dancing my arse off when i'm there lol. Thing is, new bf seems to think that i don't need to do this anymore now i am with him. (i met him out but i wasn't actually looking for anyone at the time) I do enjoy spending time with him and going for meals and cinema but i live for the happy atmosphere of being out. It's the only thing i can't take my daughter to so i like to make the most of it when i don't have her. I didn't really do it much when i was younger as i had my daughter at 21, so its only the past year or so that i've started going out. I'm not looking to flirt or pull when i am out i am not a cheat he is more than welcome to come with me. Also, i know it sounds selfish but it isn't my fault that bf chooses to work every single day. does it mean i shouldn't go cos he is tired??
sorry for the ramble on but he makes me feel guilty every time i want to go out.
am i being selfish and unreasonable??
xx