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To want to burn these f***ing flowers???

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marymoll · 05/03/2011 00:12

Ok to cut a long story short, my older sis took her own life 18 months ago after yrs of
fighting depression. She had been sexually abused as a child by an older cousin and had never been able to cope with it.
So in the last week I found a bouquet of flowers on her grave that were not put there by family. With a little investigation I have discovered that they were put there by a sister of this man who abused my sis. His daughter got married a cple mths ago and they are her bridesmaids flowers. He is dead several yrs after being murdered by the father of a little girl her also abused...
I am sick at the thought of anything to do with that sick B*tard being anywhere near my sis and want to confront the family involved. However my older brother wants to just take it away and destroy it..I mean the cheek of them to do that now, they know the part the abuse played in my sis death, he may as well have killed her himself.... Sorry for the rant, any views/advice welcomed....

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Edinburghlass · 05/03/2011 14:18

Good on your brother. Think he was spot on. I would think the flowers were kindly meant. Sorry it had the wrong result for you.

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