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S&M

33 replies

KnittedBreast · 03/03/2011 13:03

Just watched Rhiannas video sandm. not really sure why they banned that...its not that racey surely?

to be honest im a bit dissapointed, was expecting more.

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SequinsAndSparkles · 03/03/2011 16:27

I like the song! Not sure why the video was banned tbh, there are much worse ones out there!

FluffyMuff · 03/03/2011 16:52

I am not an incredibly aggressive poster at all actually.

Just on this because I've been called something I'm not, taken way out of context and jumped on, I'm defending myself.

I'm not racist or any kind of ist. You know nothing about me.

In my family it is a common joke about S&M/M&S and my mum, brother and aunt who are all dyslexic (varying degrees of severity) are amused by it and usually instigate any jokes.

I misjudged this but I won't apologise to the 2 of you as you have been rude and aggressive to me.

Check my posting history, although you'll be very bored as I am neither rude, aggressive or confrontational. I am on this occasion because frankly, at this moment in time I couldn't care less.

I'm not hiding the thread because I can't be arsed.

I've said all I have to, pat yourself on your back for making a stance against nasty people with opinions other than your own.

BossGibbs · 03/03/2011 17:04

Yes my humour must be offensive Hmm, because I pointed out to you that it wasn't funny, I found it incredibly offensive as did another poster, you also don't know me, nor do you know the majority of people who use mumsnet, I don't know you, I never once said I did,its also completely irreverent also, its NOT acceptable to make fun of those who have no choice in having a disability! I also didn't say you we're a hating disablist etc... I pulled you up on making fun of people who have this learning disability, do you honestly think its "fun" or "joke" worthy to call people who struggle with this disability "thick" for humour, evidently you do!, or else you wouldn't have made the extremely offensive comment

I have a right to pull anybody who think this disability is for humour, or thinks that people who suffer from it, are "thick"

I think you do knows it was a unacceptable comment, hence why you've further went down the obscenity and back up route, instead of just apologising,you've just made yourself look like a disablist fool, and that's what I find sad, because you see nothing wrong with your attuide, even when those who do have this disability have found it offensive to us, and those who have the disability.

FluffyMuff · 03/03/2011 17:06

I do not care. I am being offensive because I want to.

I am evil.

I must be flogged

NO, arrest me and call SS quick to take my child away.

I DON'T CARE.

I am now allowing you to be the person I am taking out all of my bad situation shit on because you are enabling me to do so.

Thanks

BossGibbs · 03/03/2011 17:13

Your acting like a spoilt brat, your not the only ones to have problems, if you need to talk, talk, its what AIBU is about, I'm not sorry for pulling you up on your comment, it was offensive, whether you like it or not.

I think you need to go and have a cuppa, and have a break away from the computer.

Your only going to alienate yourself, and make yourself feel worse.

upyourdiva · 03/03/2011 17:22

Fluffymuff are you alright? Judging from your comments you sound slightly erm... on the verge of a breakdown eccentric!

It was a stupid comment to make and you should just accept that and move on. We all jest about something we should'nt sometimes but sometimes people will call you on it. Simple as.

Mamaz0n · 03/03/2011 17:39

You sound quite barking tbh.

You made a comment in the hopes it would seen as funny. I am sure some probably did. But when it was pointed out to you by 3 seperate posters that it was indeed offensive, rather than just say "sorry error of judgement" you became aggressive and just, weird.

I don't even understand your last post.

laosvher · 03/03/2011 17:54

I haven't seen the video, the lyrics (before they were changed on the radio) had some questions from DD2 though. "What's S&M?"
You could have fried an egg on my face

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