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To feel unwanted by dh?

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Broodymomma · 26/02/2011 22:27

Every day he gets up laptop on sits and eats breakfast at it, goes to work comes home laptop out headphones on until I go to bed. When we are out together i come second to the blackberry attached to his ear and hand. We have not been intimate since my birthday at start of month. Earlier i suggested a "early night" for us both. He said no he did not want sex he was too tired. I came up to bed at ten popped back down and he is exercising away. I said "oh you are not that tired then"
And I just got tutted at and asked what i wanted.
He seems to have energy for everything but me.
Am i wrong to feel peed off and neglected?

OP posts:
mmsmum · 26/02/2011 22:47

YANBU

I think your internet connection needs to develop a fault. See what happens when he can't get online, it might be enough to break the habit. Otherwise, kick his butt! Tell him straight how lucky he is to have you and how he should be appreciating you.

beesimo · 26/02/2011 23:30

When you are attracted to each other it can lead to being whats called 'in love' but being in a grown up relationship requires you to GIVE love its not just something you feel its something you DO. It means caring if you make someone so very unhappy as he has you, sorry to say but if he prefers to wank away with his blackberry ect he is not mature enough at whatever age he is now to have a relationship with a real life woman. Don't waste your time on the immature man/boy listen to India Aries cds and find a man who can GIVE love.

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