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to be considering getting a vibrator instead of a man?

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RampantRarebit · 24/02/2011 19:35

Have namechanged for obvious reasons. I am absolutely sick to death of dating the wrong men and getting nowhere with my love life. Have decided to resign myself to being a lone parent for life. But I really miss sex. Am I being really a saddo for wanting to get a vibrator to use, not just for a bit of a laugh or a joke. Does anyone out there really use them?

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SpringchickenGoldBrass · 25/02/2011 23:24

Bloody hell, are there really adult women who have not tried vibrators?
OP, vibrators are great. Wanking is great - you won't catch any social diseases, you won't get an unplanned PG, and you won't have to carry on doing sexy stuff when you've had your orgasm and want to go to sleep. This is always going to be better than a crap relationship with a nasty man. If you are currently in a state of going from one inadequate unpleasant knob to another, a year or so of solo sex and working on your self esteem is the best way forward. But do make sure that you keep in touch with friends and family and people who love and care about you in a non-sex-related way, human beings need affectionate touch from other human beings - it just doesn;t have to be sex/romance-related.

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