Ok.... This week I haven't been able to do as much work as I should, dd went to nursery for mon and tues afternoon but I looked after her both mornings and all day today until about 5 when I had brought dh home (gave him a lift) and he watched her while I had a 30 min break...then he popped out to the pub at 6 and got back at 9:50...
Tomorrow is his day off and our agreement ha always been that he would watch dd before late shifts and for at least half of his days off so that I can work and we limit the amount of nursery needed... Yesterday dh mentioned that he needed some time on Thursday to finish his nvq (he has had loads of office time to do this at work and had taken some off time before to do it) I agreed as he needs to hand it in tomorrow even though i have a very big meeting on Friday with my supervisor and I probably have about 16 hours of work to do before then.... I told him that I would need to lock myself away to work tonight and tomorrow night once dd (15 months) and ds (11) went to bed and he said fine, I reminded him before he went out tonight and when he texted me at 9:30 to say he was on bus I reminded him that I would be working...
He came in and put his head around the door and said hello, I turned my head and said hi, and that I would be about 30 mins or so... He stomped off to lounge nd put on the tv so I closed the study door so as not to be distracted by the tv and so I didn't need to ask him to turn it down, he then said in person and repeated by text that I was bloody rude, I reminded him that I had said what I was doing but he said I should have come out for 5 mins etc.... I explained I was in the middle of something and wanted to finish that then I would be out but he thinks I am awful, treated him like he was sub human etc, and is now sleeping on the sofa tonight. I went up to bed and he came up to get a pillow and reiterated that I was rude and out of order and then said he would leave it that if I felt my behaviour was acceptable...... I said yes it was and he was over reacting but was I rude and unreasonable or is this another dh twatisode?