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AIBU?

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to let my son spend HIS turn on the slide climbing up it instead of going down it?

236 replies

lookingforwards · 22/02/2011 14:56

Just had this happen again at play area (softplay this time) but its happened so many times over the last yr since DS could walk. He's a climber and thinks slides are for climbing. He waits his turn, then goes to the bottom and starts scrambling up it. After a suitable interval I get h im off and he waits again till the last child after him has had a go at which point I let him at the slide again for a scramble. He only gets about 1 minute if its busy but unlimited if there's noone else there. I lift him off if there's someone waiting at the top who has clambered up and wants to come down and then he can scramble again while they are climbing back up. He is 18 mths.

The problem starts when some other parent lifts their child/baby striahgt up to the top and then looks at me impatiently or says straight out 'can you take him off please?'.

Well I think a go spent climbing is as valid as a go spent coming down but the rest of the baby playground world apparently goes by a different etiquette where slides are for coming down and anyone climbing up is a pain and their parent needs to have it pointed out to them that their son is breaking all the unwritten rules.

So go on then AIBU, what's the verdict?

OP posts:
spidookly · 23/02/2011 16:00

"its a slide, teach him its not for climbing"

Flowers are red.

Green leaves are green.

There's no need to see a flower any other way than the way they always have been seen.

FindingStuffToChuckOut · 23/02/2011 16:02

Franca Sorry I swear I read you were there yesterday above!! Really must get my eyes checked. This PG is really affecting my typing/reading AND writing Blush

Unrulysun · 23/02/2011 16:12

Ha ha at 'feral older children' in KP gardens. That is a beautiful playground indeed :)

Abr1de · 23/02/2011 16:14

It makes the slide less slippy when people keep walking up it. I know this from my time managing a playground. The rubberised soles of trainers and boots just deaden the surface.

Francagoestohollywood · 23/02/2011 16:31

Findingstuff, I wish I was in London and could go to that playground often

kaid100 · 23/02/2011 18:40

If it takes the same amount of time for him to go up as for a child to go down, and so long as it is safe for all concerned, YANBU.

Popple · 23/02/2011 18:46

So he waits his turn, slides down it...and then climbs up it?

princessparty · 23/02/2011 19:11

A baby climbing a plastic slide in socks sounds very unsafe to me - a great way to get smashed in the face!

indyandlara · 23/02/2011 20:36

Yesterday at soft play a 3 year climbing up the slide was kicked pretty hard in the face by another one coming down it. Very cross mum, who had been busy enjoying her latte..... Wee lad looked in a lot of pain.
YABU

muminthemiddle · 23/02/2011 23:15

Ohthehuge that is adorable, nearly as cute as the programme about baby pandas.

Abr1de · 25/02/2011 11:27

I have just spent 40 minutes polishing our slides to make them slippy again. If children didn't climb up them it would be much easier.

Walking up them makes them less fun for other children. If you're in a playground there are other things to climb.

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