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To think that a mohican hair-do is not appropriate for school?

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papulacandin · 20/02/2011 09:30

Two boys have joined school (yr4 and yr2) both of whom sport proper mohicans - middle of head, front to back, gelled up to about 2 - 3 cms.

Is this appropriate for school? Many of us think not and worry about the impression it gives of the school, but the headteacher is using the 'freedom of expression' defence.

What do you reckon?

OP posts:
Deaddei · 20/02/2011 16:44

I don't like them.
But then I don't like lots of things.

starterfor10 · 20/02/2011 17:38

I don't like DS' mohican either, but I'd rather he had a haircut I don't like than something a bit more permanant like a tattoo or piercing.

TheArmadillo · 20/02/2011 17:45

loads of kids at ds (primary) school have hair like that. DIdn't think it was a big deal tbh

Ds has his shaved.

The ones I find wierd are the ones who have patterns shaved into their heads - how do they make the child sit still that long Confused

I suspect they are better parents than me Grin

freerangeeggs · 20/02/2011 17:47

My last school was in the Good Schools Guide. The kids there had all sorts of 'dos - I had a few mohicans in my classes, one boy whose entire head was neon pink, and it was the fashion to have streaks of various colours. They were quite lax with uniform, too. The ethos of the school was fantastic, the kids' behaviour was excellent and they had a great reputation in the local, upmarket area.

My current school thinks it's a bit special and has strict uniform/hair rules. The ethos doesn't even compare with my last school and the behaviour, at times, is crap. The kids are regularly in trouble with police for smoking/fighting etc outside the school grounds. This is in an even more upmarket area tan my first school.

Uniform has NOTHING to do with it. There are crap schools with strict uniforms and fantastic schools with none.

FTR I think there's a place for uniform but I think kids should also be entitled to a bit of individuality. Yes, in certain workplaces they will need to wear a certain dress code, but when they're adults they'll be able to choose whether they want to work in such places - not so when they're young.

Besides, how difficult a lesson is that to learn anyway? 'Don't wear a mohican to your office job' - there. Job done, without twelve years of training.

Bizarre, honestly, and none of your business. IME people who get hepped up about such things have their priorities all wrong.

Tryharder · 20/02/2011 17:47

YABU and a snob. Ithought you were going to say that the children had a massive pink punk 80s mohican!! My DS has quite longish natural rastas like Sid from CBeebies. We don't style his hair that way - it's just the way it grows. You would probably think we are chavs as well Hmm

It's a shame that the mums in the playground have nothing better to gossip about than 2 little boys.

alistron1 · 20/02/2011 17:50

All I can add to this discussion is 'Puck from Glee'

GwendolineMaryLacey · 20/02/2011 17:51

Since when is a Mohican chav? FFS just because you don't like something it doesn't put it under the one size fits all umbrella of chav Hmm

Glitterandglue · 20/02/2011 18:55

I've had a mohawk every single summer since I was sixteen [only once managed it throughout the whole year - it just rains too much in this country to bother with it all the time]. Not once has my hairstyle affected my personality, nor my ability to work or study.

It has, however, taught me that there are a lot of people out there who judge instantaneously and refuse to let that judgement be shifted by any new information. Stereotypes exist for a reason, sure, but that doesn't mean everyone fits into them and it doesn't mean it's okay for you to treat everyone in a particular group the same way. For instance, crossing the road from me because I've got several large bright blue/red/green spikes coming out of the top of my head, which makes you think therefore I must be dangerous. I'm really not. Not unless you walk really close behind me and wait for me to throw my head back in laughter or something.

All this nonsense about, "It makes you look bad," well, that's fine, I accept that risk. I don't agree that it's right for me to have to pander to others who judge so quickly, in the same way that I don't accept that girls who dress in a sexually provocative way are 'asking for it' if they get raped. If other people can't control their kneejerk ridiculous ideas about me, I don't want to be socialising or working with them anyway.

bellavita · 20/02/2011 19:04

Oh ffs, what has it got to do with you? Mind your own business.

starterfor10 · 20/02/2011 19:06

freerangeggs my DS would love bright pink hair. He's in the wrong school, obviusly.

activate · 20/02/2011 19:07

if it is school policy that it is allowed it is none of your business

if it is school policy that it is not allowed the children will be sent home to correct it

I know at least 2 schools where nothing but straightforward hairstyles are allowed - no tracklines or colours - and kids are sent home to correct it and excluded until they do

shesparkles · 20/02/2011 19:15

There was a time when I'd have thought it wasn't the best hairstyle to have, but you know what, no one died of a hairstyle.

My 8 year old ds is very proud of having the longest hair in his year (and probably the school now I think about it) It's not a fashion thing, when he was tiny he was very blonde, and had I not let it grow, he'd have looked bald for a very long time! Now he just likes it long-is that any different from what the OP is saying?
(by long I mean it's properly shaped, and the back just sits on his shoulders)

nooka · 20/02/2011 19:41

If it's only 3cm tall then I wouldn't count it as a 'real' mohican - in an English context I'd expect much more of an effort really Grin

I don't understand why parents or schools get into such a tizzy about how children look at school. It's totally immaterial to me. My children went to a uniformed school in the UK and then to non-uniform when we moved to North America. I haven't noticed any difference to the school ethos , standards of behaviour or educational attainment.

I asked my two what would happen if they went to school with pink hair tomorrow and they both looked rather non-plused that this would be an issue (although ds did say he might be a bit embarrassed). We have a few children with mohicans and mohawks too.

ratspeaker · 20/02/2011 19:44

I'm giving glitterandglue a huge round of applause

Grumpla · 20/02/2011 19:52

FFS. What a colossal bunch of prejudiced snobs on this thread. I hate the term 'chavvy', are you really so concerned about your precious darlings mixing with children who look poor/working class? What kind of message do you think that's sending them?

I had bleached / pink / blue hair, piercings etc from the age of about 11 onwards, school weren't too fussed about it being against the official rules once I pointed out that if I left the school their average exam ratings would slip significantly. Like one of the posters above I had the shit kicked out of me at school - since they seemed completely unable to prevent that why the fuck would I have allowed them to have dictated what I did with MY hair?

RevoltingPeasant · 20/02/2011 21:52

Personally I find the British shortbacknsides much more 'common' than a mohawk.... In fact most people who go for 'punky' type looks tend to be more individual, creative, and bright.

In fact in my seminar groups, the three students I teach who have bright pink/ turquoise/ purple hair are the top students. Hm...

MoonGirl1981 · 20/02/2011 22:05

I love mohicans.

If we go entirely on first impressions I'd think all mohican owners were cool and fabulous.

It takes a lot of dedication to maintain such a style.

My son hasn't had a haircut since he was three (now seven) and now has hair longer than mine. Doesn't change how he learns or behaves.

Little boys all look the same unless they're your child. It's handy if they have cool hairstyles!

:)

Gwyllianog · 26/09/2022 14:06

I have to say it's mum's like you who have nothing better to do than gossip that give schools a bad name. You are nothing but a playground bully. If the head has okayed it who are you to stick your beak in?

Mumoblue · 26/09/2022 14:08

I reckon you’re being a busybody. It’s hair.

SoupDragon · 26/09/2022 14:09

ZOMBIE thread from 2011!

ofwarren · 26/09/2022 14:09

Gwyllianog · 26/09/2022 14:06

I have to say it's mum's like you who have nothing better to do than gossip that give schools a bad name. You are nothing but a playground bully. If the head has okayed it who are you to stick your beak in?

@gwyllianog this post is 9 years old.

Mumoblue · 26/09/2022 14:14

Haha wow didn’t realise it was a zombie thread. This is what I get for not checking dates. I hope Mohawk kid is doing great.

PaperMonster · 26/09/2022 14:14

They’re not going to stop the children from learning and, whilst I don’t like them (in the same way I don’t like mullet hair cuts that are currently popular) they’re not inappropriate.

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