not to make the wifes half of the bed

[BartySlartfast]

I am always up first and I keep telling DW to make the bed when she gets up,she never does. So now I only make my half of the bed.

AIBU?

I prefer to straighten the bed out just before bedtime.

I would love to see a half made bed.

You are married, which means you must be at least 16.

Act your age and talk about it.

"The" wife? Which one? There are millions of us out there.

I have talked about it but she takes no notice
I think she never notices the bed half made because I am usually in bed before her aswell

I used to make the bed while dh was asleep in it - he used to get really cross LOL
Nowadays I sleep in the spare room :o and he festers in the super king size on his own. He just throws the quilt back then moans cos the cat leaves that skanky cat grit in the bed

shame

How about Reeling just pinches the thread and we start a discussion about the shape of wet patches we once knew?

Any contributions from OP gratefully received.

Mind you I can't quite remember our last one.
We're old marrieds and knackered most of the time!

Wet patches

Are you talking wet patches from rude business?

Yes.

My DH used to moan if I didn't make the bed after getting out of it. I do think it's a valid point of last out sorts the duvet however, I couldn't care less if it is straightened when I first get out or when he comes moaning about later and straightens it then
The only person to go in our bedroom is us so who cares..I'm never going to be in OK magazine. I wouldn't even get me started on all those people that have millions of cushions on their bed that they then have to take off before they get in and put back on in the morning....what a waste of time!

I'm an old unmarried.....

And knackered most of the time...

But those fucking wet patches...

They are a drag...

Last time I visited DP he got cocksnot on the sheets - and then announced that those were the last clean ones.

[skanked out emoticon]

Oh ChildofIsis.....

We did Antartica once....

(Just thought I'd share )

Anyhow YANBU, I keep telling DP to pull back the sheets to air the bed when he gets up but he never does....

And what kind of relationship is it when you can't tell the other person to do things? tsk.

Haven't made a bed in years. :)

DP is so anal about tidying that the other day he started making the bed while I was still in it. I had to sneak out of the side after I'd finished breakfast (yes, I am so spoiled that I get breakfast in bed at weekends!)

Oh dear Barty, do stop being silly

You are male (Im assuming) so thererfore everything that you say or do, is, by default UNREASONABLE!
Maybe you should give over telling the 'little woman' what to do and go and mow the lawn, or fix the car like a good husband should!

Or put some shelves up?

I've told dh about this thread and mentioned that we had a'shape of africa to beat'.

I'm not sure that we could manage antartica though!

I think putting shelves up is a usefull thing for a dh/dp to do.