dp works mon-fri 7am-3pm, normally home by 4pm.
he works most saturdays 12-7pm
he works 1 or 2 evenings a month.
the saturdays and evenings are a parttime job which he enjoys, chooses to do and earns ok money.
he also goes to the gym once a week for 2 hrs, pub once a week for 2 hrs, meeting with a meal once a fortnight 5 hrs so has time for himself.
im a sahm through choice, i look after dd (3.7) and dd2 (12 weeks) every day and also saturdays and evenings while dp works or goes out.
i currently have no time for myself as i bf dd2, i was going to a gym class 2 hrs a week but now just pop to shop for a breather once a week.
dps saturday/evening work is coming to a natural end.
i said when it does i would like the chance to either get a saturday job and ern a bit of my own money or go to night school/college and learn something before looking for parttime work when dd2 is school age.
dp thinks that because he has always had saturdays for his job that when the job ends saturdays become his free time to d whatever he chooses, like mor time at gym or another sport.
am i wrong? ive known him 8 years and always supported his choice to work saturdays but feel its my turn now.
aibu?