and overly paranoid about this iPhone App?

[unsurevalentine]

Was putting clanedar app on OH's iPhone at w/e so we can sync them (yes sad I know) he had this App on there called WhosHere - does anyone have this as to me it looked like a dating/chat thing and I can't see any other reason why anyone would have this on their phone.

I challenged him and he said he thought it was something else, got defensive and deleted it there and then and said he didn't like being accused of doing things he hasn't done - I didn't accuse I just asked what it was.

He lives away. We have been together just over a year and are really happy and we have a healthy sex life.

AIBU to feel a bit wobbly about this or am I just being a dick?

Thanks....

Did you google the app? or look to see what it was?

dailyappshow.com/whos-here-iphone-app-review

He might have downloaded it by accident?

Hmmm I saw that online too and looked at his it only had one conversation which was blank but all the people listed were women which suggested he had adjusted his setting

Not overly bothered if hes just using it to look at dirty pictures but am bothered if hes chatting to other women :(

Am left wondering if he was honest with me as he deffo did not download it accidently.

Hmm, I think I'd be a bit suspicious about that. He might well have just got it for very innocent nosiness though. It's a shame he deleted it before you could see if he'd set up a profile on it.

I think the defensiveness is a bad sign :(

I know I am kicking myself for saying something so bloody soon - should've waited and "monitered" the situation

He watches a lot of porn when he is on his own which I am fine with. I am not fine with him intereacting with real people - who he could meet.

Sorry, cross post.

Well there is nothing you can do here really. You can keep going on about it and annoy him / cause an argument, or forget it, trust him and move on.
He's unlikely to admit if he downloaded it to try and meet other women.

Yes you are probably right :(