We're temporarily poor: I am a carer and my DH lost his job recently, he is self employed but in that stage where he makes a profit but not a huge one yet. He is also training full time and I am part time so it IS temporary but it takes time and we juggle it around the children as everyone does- childcare is inaccessible to us at this time due to disability.
Having almost qualified I decided I would try and set up a small concern to get some experience to put on application forms (applying for social work or teacher training when DH finishes his training) and also to help boost my own self esteem and feel like a contributor.
At the moment I have enough clients to cover my expenses entirely but no more; website, etc. That's not unusual for a small business I know.
So I registered with IR, and told HB as we get a small % of our rent covered. And HB immediately cancelled the HB and placed us 'under investigation'. If we cannot sort it out and I cannot get a profit very quickly indeed I will have to close the business as keeping a roof securely over the children?s heads has to be a priority.
Surely the people they should investigate are those not declaring every small change of status? And that people trying to find a new route should be encouraged to do that, not just because of state resources but because our children still see us working and trying? DH typically puts in a 16 hour day with study and work, and as a carer, student and doing even a tiny amount of self employed work I do feel I am making an effort also.
I hate getting HB; but it's better for everyone that we get HB for a few years and then come off it entirely, rather than default on the rent and end up in state accommodation for ever, no?
Or maybe redundancy was really the end for us and we should give up: so many messages being given out seem to suggest that. Clearly my genes are not up to scratch (two of our children have a genetic disorder from me) and there is a message in there somewhere. Maybe.