to continue my holiday rant - If I book a holiday and DH is an arse can I get refunds on flights etc?

[AtYourCervix]

Bollocks to him. I am about to book a lovely holiday.

If I book a nice place for us I wouldn't expect money back for room/villa thingy but if I were to book flights and he doesn't pull his finger out would I be able to get any cash back for the flight for him?

I can do everything - book the place, the flight, work extra to pay for it, pack clothes, buy sun cream etc. Everything EXCEPT get him a passport. He is quite likely to not get round to doing this for himself.

AIBU to go ahead and book it?

Whoooop! Where too? Did you get him a ticket?

haven't booked flights yet. just put deposit on apartment. i will book him a seat but i won't be hassling him. his choice.

now - these 4 stones i need to shed......