ok, i have a bad relationship with my sister, so i need some perspective!
i have 3 children, 4, 7 and 11.
sister has taken the 11 yr old out for days out, over night, long weekends all on her terms, not to help me. basically once a yr she wants to do something and asks, i say yes, as he enjoys it. she will not look after the kids so i can do anything, and very very rarely comes to see us, and NEVER invites us to go see them. she called me yesterday to ask if she could take ds away for 3 nights in the 1/2 term. i said no.
i know he will love it. but the 7 yr old will be so sad, they never take her anywhere, never spend time with her, and tbh, i think it is totally unfair. my sister is now saying i am being a bitch, its not fair on my 11 yr old that he cant do things cause he has a younger sibling.
am i being mean?