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Original poster

to drug my partner with Viagra or similar?

32 replies

Rockmaiden · 13/02/2011 22:28

Ok I know i'm being totally unreasonable but even so i'm fucking frustrated lol

It's been 3 bloody weeks now and coming from someone with a very high sex drive that is used to having very regular sex i'm getting really sick of the 'i'm tired' excuse while she stays up till 2am watching Doctor Who re-runs.

I'm going to tie her up and make her!

PS - I am not actually going to force or otherwise coerce my partner into sex but I need to rant about how hard it is to go without all the same.

OP posts:
Mists · 13/02/2011 22:31

Rant away.

Then fuck off with your lols, misogyny and attitudes which could actually get you locked up one day.

Cheerio!

Bluemoonrising · 13/02/2011 22:32

Dress up as David Tennant and see if that helps...

sevendwarves · 13/02/2011 22:34

bluemoonrising :o

BeerTricksPotter · 13/02/2011 22:43

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AuntiePickleBottom · 13/02/2011 22:45

atm i have depression, which means also my sex drive is zero.

also if she is on hormonal contraception this also could cause the lack of sex drive

Mumcentreplus · 13/02/2011 22:49

Talk to her...ask her why she's watching Doctor Who till 2am and avoiding you..just be straight and understanding with her..

Mists you are not helping

hardhatdonned · 13/02/2011 22:53

Talk to her. It IS frustrating when one partner won't have sex but you won't know the reasons why she's not having sex until you ask her why.

As for the first respondent a relationship is a two way thing and sex is a big part of that.

Mists · 13/02/2011 22:58

Mists is not helping when this bloke wants to drug his DP and jokes about tying her up? Shock

GreenEyesandHam · 13/02/2011 22:59

Is it a bloke?

Mists · 13/02/2011 23:00

"I'm going to tie her up and make her!"

Sounds like one to me Hmm

hardhatdonned · 13/02/2011 23:01

He then in the next sentance states he's not going to do that but that he's just expressing his, understandable, frustration.

sallysparrow157 · 13/02/2011 23:02

presumably from the handle and the 'she' in profile, rockmaiden is female. can you be mysogynist and female?

GreenEyesandHam · 13/02/2011 23:02

With the name, I assumed OP was female, gay

Not that it makes much diff, I'm just nosey :o

ThatVikRinA22 · 13/02/2011 23:03

can i just say to the op

off you fuck.

Mists · 13/02/2011 23:05

I'm not helping the OP that's for fucking sure. He is, for example, a twat. Since when were MNers bound to support any old wanker of an OP? It wasn't in the terms and conditions I ticked.

BitOfFun · 13/02/2011 23:06

Viagra doesn't make anybody want sex. It just increases blood circulation.

But that aside, your OP is pretty unpleasant.

slartybartfast · 13/02/2011 23:07

perhaps they are both female?

BluddyMoFo · 13/02/2011 23:07

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ThatVikRinA22 · 13/02/2011 23:09

who cares?

op is a twat. i think twat is a unisex term

Mists · 13/02/2011 23:10

Thank you BoF that was what I was trying to the say on the other thread about Viagra.

I still can't believe I was told to back off on this unpleasant OP but one lives ands learns Smile

Mumcentreplus · 13/02/2011 23:17

I wasn't saying his/her expressions were'nt unpleasant more that if he/she really wanted solutions we should give him/her one..not just tell them to fuck off...I'm quite positive we have all had and made unreasonable demands..so in turn unless you are perfect you may have unpleasant feelings... I'm off.. I hate it in semi-troll country

FabbyChic · 13/02/2011 23:43

Depression does not cause your sex drive to go. I'm depressed but I'm not frigid.

Some people will use any excuse.

Your mrs is staying up till 2am because if she comes to bed when you go she knows she will have to think of an excuse not to.

You have to sit down and talk about it.

Three weeks is a long time. However, try going almost a year.

Leverkusen · 13/02/2011 23:48

Mumcentreplus- why the fuck should we help the OP? Do you think jokes about raping your partner are funny? I certainly don't.

OP you are a twunt.

Amieesmum · 13/02/2011 23:52

lmfao fabbyChic i'm depressed but not frigid

Three whole weeks? it's been like two frigging years!!! Buy a dildo and stop complaining Grin