to wonder if he is taking the piss a bit...?

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OH comes here with his kids we split the shopping bill for food when they are here every other weekend. We don't live together because of his job.

Obviously they use loo roll, soap, etc that he doesn't directly contribute towards (nor the gas, electric, mortagage either..) which I am quite chiiled about my kids also share all their toys which sometimes end up getting broken as his kids are younger.

AIBU to feel a bit pissed off that he has just kicked off about the fact that hes gone to bath his kids and the bubble bath he/we got has been used (while he uses my bloody shampoo) and said we should have asked (even thought none of us remember using it!!)

AIBU????

The talk of arses, demanding satisfaction and tightness has made a very rude Olessaty roll around laughing on the floor. Do you have a naughty step around here?

I would stare him right in the eyes, hold out my hand and begin counting on my fingers all the things that he and his children benefit from but don't contribute to.

And tell him that if he begrudges your children some bloody bubblebath then he needs to write you a cheque for £ for all the gas, electric, loo roll they've used so far, AND start contributing for them from now on.

And finish with "or you could stop being so stupid, mean and petty. Your choice."

He told me he dried one of the kids hair with my hairdryer I was like "oh and you didn't ask?" then one of his kids came downstairs with one of my kids toys and I was like "I'm not sure if she asked".....

I think hrs getting the picture :D