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AIBU?

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To think people should read a whole thread before posting?

58 replies

camerondiazepam · 04/02/2011 10:53

Drives me mad. Posting without reading the whole thread is like eavesdropping on half a conversation and wading in. And with the sort-of anonymity afforded by t'interweb, people tend to wade in and then some. Don't people realise it makes them look stupid? Why do they persist in doing it?

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NestaFiesta · 04/02/2011 12:30

YABU, I haven't read the whole thread but you should definitely divorce him and call the police.

meantosay · 04/02/2011 12:31

If the title of the thread and the opening post interests me, but there are 120 intervening posts you can be fairly sure that many of them are by a couple of posters having a bilateral argument or someone who has misunderstood the OP and is going on and on irrelevantly. Therefore I would normally just do a quick read of some of the posts and then make my own comment.

FreudianSlippery · 04/02/2011 12:33

Yawn!!! This is a forum FFS not homework. YABU.

NestaFiesta · 04/02/2011 12:35

What Freudian said. Most MNers are busy and don't have all afternoon to read 300 posts before writing a couple of lines in reply. Its supposed to fun and/or voluntary, not a monitored comprehension exercise.

cumfy · 04/02/2011 13:08
Wine
cumfy · 04/02/2011 13:17

HNRT

I think it could be helpful especially on long threads to have a standard acronym (eg Have Not Read the Thread HNRT)

Hullygully · 04/02/2011 13:18

Or NIORTWFT

No intention of reading the whole fucking thread

cumfy · 04/02/2011 13:23

OP, of course I'm assuming you have read all 50,000 AIBU threads with approx 5 million posts prior to forming this conclusion .......

Or did you just sample a small percentage ? :o:o

FreudianSlippery · 04/02/2011 13:46

OMG I didn't realise we have the wine emoticon.

Wine
BootyMum · 04/02/2011 13:51

That's fantastic! Wine Wine Wine

dearprudence · 04/02/2011 13:52

When did we get that? Wine

Can't be bothered reading the thread but am happy to go off on a tangent.

BootyMum · 04/02/2011 13:54

But just also realised that the pombear is gone! When did that happen???

swanandduck · 04/02/2011 13:55

READ THE THREAD!

Well actually read the Wine anyone thread. We're all well hammered on there by now.

BootyMum · 04/02/2011 13:56

So the pombear is still there - but hidden [like a secret code]? [pombear]

Dylthan · 04/02/2011 13:56

I try and read a whole thread bit if it's huge I tend to just skim. If it's really big it tends to just be loads of people saying the same thing over and over anyway.

BootyMum · 04/02/2011 13:56

Or Bear

BootyMum · 04/02/2011 13:57

Found it!!! Yay, more Wine now.

LeQueen · 04/02/2011 13:59

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dearprudence · 04/02/2011 14:01
Bear
togarama · 04/02/2011 14:04

I very rarely comment for the first time on anything that is more than 4 pages long because I can't be bothered reading it all.

CatIsSleepy · 04/02/2011 14:05

well yes you're probably right but hell, life's too short sometimes so actually, YABU

rubyrubyruby · 04/02/2011 14:05

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BluddyMoFo · 04/02/2011 14:05

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cleanerforyou · 04/02/2011 14:07

Tut tut this is an untidy thread best get my duster out dearies

NormanTheForeman · 04/02/2011 14:10

Depends on the thread. If it's something like "What's for dinner" then I probably wouldn't read everyone else's dinner menus first. But if it was something likely to develop into a discussion I would, at the very least, skim-read it to get some idea of how the thread was going.

Although sometimes I do think it would be fun to answer thread titles with something, short, sweet and totally unconsidered. E.g. "Find me a pair of shoes" and posting link to first pair of shoes I could find, without reading OP to find out what poster was looking for Grin. Disclaimer - am tempted but haven't actually done this!