DH been out with a friend since 3pm

[TabithaSilver]

aibu to call him? It's nearly ten now. They had a business meeting and now they're probably drinking and eating.

Should I just leave him be?

Eric: It's only polite to let your other half know if they are planning on coming home to eat or not, no?

Agree with Rollergirl.

No, he did say he wouldn't be home for supper. That's cool.

Tabitha: Okay, so you wouldn't be calling to enquire where he was, just to touch base? Well I think that's fine too. I guess it depends what kind of relationship you have. DH quite often calls me from when he is out at drinks and stuff (usually when he is bored and doesn't really want to be there). Other times I won't hear from him all night. Similarly, if I feel like speaking to him when I am at home and he is out, I will call. If he answers than great but no big deal if he doesn't.

I have a funny situation tonight. DH is out at an awards do tonight (black tie affair). He called about an hour ago all het up because one of his colleagues has gone mental and has been trying to fight people and shouting random abuse. DH's boss politely told DH that he would be doing his mate/colleague a favour by getting him into the nearest taxi asap and DH was on the verge of doing that when colleague ran off into the night calling people cnuts. I think he can't wait to get home!

Your poor dh Rollergirl. Hope the other chap is ok - was his behaviour drink related do you know?

Any news?

If my dp has (pre-arranged and discussed) evening stuff to do then I wouldn't think to text him, tbh. Earlier this week he went to footy in London and all I needed to know what which train he was on. And that only because he needed to be picked up at the station.

But then I don't expect him to send me texts when I'm out for the evening. Not necessary unless some dire emergency has occurred.

So YA probably being a bit U for texting him just yet.

He got back at midnight. Drunk after a good time out with his pals.

All fine. I guess when you notice there's a unusually big gap in comms, one starts to wonder if they're ok.

Thanks very much for indulging me though!

Well , did your DH elaborate on the evenings events. Do you suspect 'fowl play' or was it all above board. ??
Does he have a headache today ?

Fowl play! Brilliant.

No, I didn't ask him about women.

I don't really see the point in doing that because i). I do trust him and ii). if my trust is misplaced, then there's not a lot I can do about it until proof presents itself and there's not much point in arguing about it or even thinking about it.

And dcs got us up at 4.40am today so we're both feeling shabby!

well that good that he is trustworthy and you feel secure knowing he is not a dirty flirter.

Poor you with little one up at 4am . . .bed early
tonight then ??