to not wake dh?

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at 3.15 in the pm? i mean im not his mother...what say you all?

is there any need to? going anywhere?

Um depends I suppose

I'm sure you can't sleep till 3.15 in the afternoon by accident! He must have taken a peek at the clock?

Did he come in late? Does he have a reason to be sleeping in - ie been ill, had a stressful time etc?

I would leave him. His issue if he wants to sleep the day away.

"I would leave him..."

That's a bit harsh, honeybee. Even by Mumsnet standards!

does he need to get ujp
is he ill
was he up late

and surely he has woken and decided not get up and gone back to sleep

Lol Butterbur

My DH is asleep right now. He has to have a nap every afternoon. It drives me mental!

If you want him for something - wake him up

If he asked you to wake him up and he agreed - wake him up

therwise - let him sleep

Unless you think he wont sleep tonight leave him.

oh he wont sleep tonight and i am fully expecting "why didn't you get me up!"

am quite enjoying getting the whole use of broadband to myself as it happens

I'd leave him.

When my DH has a nap and says "call me at 6/ 7/ whatever time" I give him a perfunctory shout up the starts declaring the time and the fact that he ahd asked me to wake him.

Several times he has slept through the call, so I have now told him to set the alarm on his phone if he's going to keep ignoring me.

I turned it all back on him.

But why is he sleeping that late???? There must be a reason or is he just been lazy? if he didnt go to bed until say 4am or because he been out drinking - tough. Wake him.

If hes been on nights working then you ADBU

nope he was sober, but he could have stayed up til wee hours - not unusual

If he needed to get up HE could set an alarm

If you want him up to help look after kids while you get a nap/bath/rest wake him
or send the kids through

oh no kids to look after ( they are 17...and out)

just shouted him - its nearly 4pm ffs, if he doesn't move now, hard shit

Not your promlemo custardo. Lazy!

Ahem. Problem

Oo-er! I'd creep in and check on him, TBH. Unless he habitually takes the "lie-in" option to ridiculous lengths, there might just be something amiss. My Pa left Ma to "sleep in" one Sunday and it turned out she'd had a stroke in the night - quite a young age - and by the time he got decisive it was too late. Sorry to sound so doomy - but it's worth checking. If he's just being a slob, creep up close with a Tesco plastic carrier bag and scrumble it vigorously, close to his ear. No one can stay asleep through that . . . heheheheh

hes up - was up til 5am - the nobber

I am a hard cow and think "If I'm up, then you can get up too, lazy bastard!"... so I would get him up. Although having the TV remote to myself would be tempting. Depends if there's anything you'd rather he would be doing :)

We have kids of 6, 3 & 18m so no way ANYBODY is sleeping in till even 10am, let alone 3pm! Maybe when they're teenagers I'll let him...