to have sex when I'm in pain? (TMI for some)

[Chocolocolate]

I have only had one sexual partner - my DH and DH has only ever had one sexual partner.

However, last night I broke out in sores around the opening to my vagina.

I can hardly move, I can't pee without being in the bath.

It's Herpes that I caught from DHs mouth

The thing is we're desperately ttc ASAP (medical reasons make sooner better). My fertile period' started today.

The GP has given me some numbing gel but it still hurts.

I'm dreading it (so is DH as he doesn't like to hurt me), but think I will still ttc.

Yeah my dh gave me herpes from cold sores too... Ouch. No just the pain, it will freaking burn. And the sores will clear up quicker if you leave them alone.

You don't use a turkey bastor you use a medicine syringe. They sell them at boots but you have to ask at the counter.

You will lose too much with a bastor